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- Importance of Purity, Baba's ShrimatIn Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021A kumari, who recently came in Gyan shares the story of Self transformation. How she accepted Purity (celibacy), learned Raja Yoga (RajYog) and her life entirely changed. However asks advice upon how to keep a balance in Shrimat and family (in general). Original Email received I was in a relationship but after i learnt rajyoga i got to know about the importance of purity. As a result my thoughts about relationships and love completly changed. I was not the same person anymore this created a lot of difference between me and my partner and now we are not together but he was severly affected by this separation. He got adversly affected. What should i do? Which decision should i take? Please reply as soon as possible! Om shanti. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Khushman Kaur and Everyone reading From: Shiv Baba Service, Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Your email letter is received. Here is our response. It is time that your luck is awakened and you received the godly message. Maybe you have taken the 7 days course. If not, the link is given: 7 days course online Purity or celibacy or Brahmacharya is the first shrimat (advice) of Shiv baba. Hence most important. You have followed this shrimat - there is nothing wrong. Baba has already told many times in murli, that when you do dharna of purity - then you would have to face oppositions. You have faced nothing compared to many souls faced during the beginning of yagya. This was because they accepted and followed Brahmcharya. You may like to know the history of Shiv baba's yagya - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history What you should do ? You may give Sakash to that soul during meditation. Sakash means giving light or vibrations of peace, purity, love or powers. Study the Murli. Firstly, know that you when you follow the shrimat given from Shiv baba, there should be no doubt in mind. There is a benefit in whatever happens in this time (Sangam yug). This is a great secret how God created a great design ni which all souls can be benefitted, not only few. You can see how Shiv baba is serving everyone in many many ways - giving inner powers, virtues, giving wisdom to some souls so that they can serve others, etc.. So you know time is less. You have to do much purusharth to get a good position in coming new world. There are 4 subjects in which a soul is marked - 1. Gyaan (knowledge) 2. Yog (connection with Shiv baba) 3. Dharna (adoption of divine virtues) 4. Sewa (service you do to others) At the end of samgam yug, the marks soul got will decide their fortune. Such important this time is - Anmol. What is service? - Connection intellects of many souls to their spiritual father (supreme soul) is the highest service. Spread the message of God. Give them Shiv baba's knowledge and create their fortune. ` ---- Useful links ---- Celibacy - A Book: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XfxSK-v3JgOMe5r3IZGH30yPxwY2YcqK/view Explore the Sitemap - https://www.bkgoogle.com/sitemap Need anything else? Search on our search engine - BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com Accha namaste In Godly World Service 0000236
- How to Spread a WordIn New comers ForumยทMay 28, 2021A lot of seva can be done when you represent a group of people. Read ahead to know more.. This is our guided advise. Original Email Received What is the role of a principal to bring the spirituality among the teachers and specially the students in one school? Email response + Guidance To: Somnath kundu and everyone reading From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa-Vidhalaya (Godly University) First of all Congratulations to you as a step taken to improve lives of many that too by the way of spirituality is the biggest service. Now you're at an influential position in School. You can do a lot of service... 1. You can conduct yog shivir, seminars or เคชเฅเคฐเคฆเคฐเฅเคถเคจเฅ (exhibition) for Rajyoga Meditation course in your school. Approach Centre for this. Know more about here -> 7 days course 2. Imbibe spirituality in daily routine of school. Consider these- after every one or two hours in school play traffic control song or a short Commentary. Guide everyone to meditate. So that student and teachers can take out 1-2 minute to refresh their minds. Above said step can also be done in daily assembly.. commentary ย of 5-10 minute should be played so that everyone connect their minds to supreme..ย We have been doing Morning prayers since ages but it has become a merely routine and no one really remembers God in the process.. if possible replace morning prayers with Godly Versions i.e Murli. Excerpts from daily murli should be recited so that everyone can note good points in mind and this will definitely change everyone as a person. if it is not possible to replace prayer in assembly, then murli can be done for about 5-10 minute after prayers and meditation exercises.ย And morning prayers song should be replaced with more meaningful songs that are much understandable with soothing spiritual music. 3. Regular counselling session and teaching everyone Godly manners by seminars like how to purify food/water, why to remember God, how to practice soul Consciousness, spiritual activities, spiritual games.. 4. Just like we have Games period, there should be Meditation period. And in lunch period, meditation should be done to purify food and make it powerful through Commentary. 5. You must take everyone for a PICNIC to nearest Mediation Retreat centre of Brahma kumaris.. I promise it will be life changing experience for everyone. There you will get food, place to stay, everything and cost will be almost negligible as compared to worldly resorts .. Contact directly to Retreat centre or your nearby centre. Some of the BK Retreat centres in India- madhuban, the headquaters at mount abu Omshanti retreat centre, gurugram shanti sarovar 6. Show meaningful videos to kids and teachers (search YouTube for more videos) -ย bal naitik shikshaye how to meditate bacho k baba *Related Post* Guidance for teachers ->ย http://bit.ly/2JVKwNN ADVICE: You should get connected to your nearest BK Rajyoga Centre. Search for nearby centre. Contact again to know more On Godly World Service 000049
- GitaIn New comers ForumยทMay 28, 2021I was raised Christian/Lutheran. I have no knowledge of Hinduism or the Gita. In order to get a better understanding of the Murli and BK teaching, I feel it's something I need. I've been watching the YouTube playlist The Gita Decoded with Sister Denise, which has been very helpful. With so many interpretations of the Gita, is there a specific version used by BK's (English translation)? Om Shanti0040
- Confusion on What to do in Life?In Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021How to discover the inner desire? What do you wish to do and be in your life? - Here is our advice on how to discover the ''Soul Desire'' and to proceed in this direction. Original Message/Email Received Dear brahma kumari, I have always heard that in order to do something in life you need to know what you actually want... But the biggest problem is I don't have any idea what I want n many times I have tried to find that but I don't get any clear idea about it. Please suggest me how to find out what I really want please suggest any tips or methods. Regards. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone Reading This From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother In truth, what I want in life is called my ''Soul Desire''. So when you think you are in a good mental state (mind is peaceful and clear), then go within and ask only one question -ย What am I searching for?ย - Such feeling should come -ย What is needed... What am I searching for? Have no judgements and do not stop your mind from bringing you all possibilities of your ''Inner Voice''. This inner voice is of Soul. This is YOU. So what you feel which is right to do for yourself, that should be done. Every soul desires - 'Peace and Love'. These 2 are intrinsic desire or needs actually of every soul. It is natural.ย If there is peace in life, we certainly feel life is beautiful. Plus there is love in our relationships, life is meaningful. WHAT TO DO? One should have no dream to become something. There should be dreams to do something for the self, family, community, country and for the world. When one overcomes selfish desires and life for the world's benefit, that one comes closer to God. That is surely the aim of life. โ Essence โ Do what you love, do what is present (Pre-Sent) in your heart. Soul already knows the best wanting of life - why it came in the world, for what... The soul knowns within. Do visit and read below articles/posts and pages as a Guidance for you: 1. Advice to progress in life (related forum post) 2. Take our Online "RajYog course" (Essence of entire Godly knowledge of creation and the creator- in our 'online' 7 days course) 3. We invite you now to come and learn ABOUT US (Introduction to Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University) 4. Watch Videos - Useful selected videos. Do visit all given links. If have any question, contact us. Namaste On Godly World Service The 'Shiv Baba Service' Initiative BKGSU00222
- Healing DepressionIn Question AnswersยทOctober 10, 2022This is our special guidance on 'Healing Depression and Overthinking' forever. In this post, we are sharing the link to our Blog post (article) which contains in-detail guidance for you. โฅ If you are searching for any similar help on "anxiety" or "overthinking" or "depression", we highly recommend you to get help through our complete article on Healing Depression (on our Blog) which will guide you STEP by STEP on how to be healed & recover from this low feeling & achieve a normal happy life again. (๐ธ๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ข ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ) GOD HAS COME To learn more, please visit our Introduction page. (Must Read) VIDEOS Speaker: BK sister Shivani 1. How to finish Depression โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_I5EAhuCVyw (Hindi) 2. Create No Negative thought โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-TF9_kaz0E (Hindi) 3. No more 'overthinking โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-j0rRcZmDws (English) 4. How to be happy again? โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d2plwvciAs0 (Hindi) 5. Overcome low feelings like this โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzWBXVfYwrU (Hindi) 6. Overcome Anxiety โค https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xAbbNqvSbPg (English) 7. Think Less. Think Right โค https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GeizEmNVb5o (Hindi) Please watch all above 7 videos one by one to get further guidance. We advise you to โค Start watching our popular spiritual talk-show/program called "Awakening with Brahma Kumaris". You can find all episodes uploaded on this YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/bkshivani (Subscribe to this channel for daily inspirations) โค Start practicing Swaman (affirmations) every morning & before sleep. Here is our in-detail guidebook on What is Swaman & How To practice it for maximum benefit โค https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf On Godly Service, ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ด๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐00135
- What is Life and its Purpose?In Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021What is Life? What is the purpose? How one should live? How to attain happiness? -upon aske question via email, we have responded with this explanation. Question was asked by Ayushi via our contact form. Original Question in Email: Greetings, Hope you all are doing well. I want to know what is life. I have no purpose, no desire, no demand. There is no direction nor aim in life. It seems like I wrong but what to do. I've interest in nothing. Please guide me. Our Response (Answer to the Email): To: Ayushi Dear Divine Sister Your letter is received. Here is the response. What do you do Ayushi? Are you a student or so? Your question was: 'What is life?' If we aim to answer this question in 1 email, it is not possible. But certainly life is for happiness. Happiness is achieved when we do something good or something that we love to do or when something good happens to us and mot important, when there is PEACE. Peace is essential in life. Peace brings clarity and a deep happiness. So whatever you do in life, do what you love. And as you say, you have no interest.. it is NOT possible Ayushi. You are one among very very few souls who are introvert (those who live within) You asked this question, means you are a great soul. Otherwise in today's world all are blindly running after their desires. You have asked - what is this desire? Does money fulfills ANY desire? Then no. Money instead increases the desires. Instead it is PEACE and LOVE for which everyone makes efforts. They ask for peace and love. They pray to God. Do you love to listen nice songs? Here is playlist of Shiv baba ke madhur Geet: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/bk-songs-playlist What you are feeling now, is a temporary feeling. As you will learn, you know yourself better, you will see a transformation in the self. Everyone loves something. A painter loves painting, etc. while many loves sleeping also!. We all are here living to learn. We learn many things. Very lucky are those who experience everything what life has to offer. Life has to offer both happiness and sorrow. We feel comfort in happiness only, while even sorrow is good. Sorrow keeps us away from doing sins. Have you ever realised? 1. Essence: WHAT IS LIFE ? Life means ''an experience''. We should learn from everything that happen. Life means also a fruit of our past Karma . For example life you say to the present. Present is achieved according to the past Karma we did. 2. Every day is an opportunity to become better. We all do mistakes. But when we learn from our mistakes, we become better. 3. AIM OF LIFE : Here is many faiths (religions) in world. They all have different understanding of the one GOD. They all hence have distinct 'aim of life'. Some say that achieving God is the aim of life. But have anyone EVER achieved the God? No. Because God is not in the cycle of life and death. He is ever detached. Him has no body like us. One CAN achieve god only when he himself comes and introduce the self. So now you have heard the supreme light's words . The source of our knowledge is the Gyaan Murli . We welcome you to re-live you life. ''Live as if this today is your last day'' This is to be learn. Learn how to live the life. We all face challenges in one or other ways. We may also fall down. But we never lose hope. We get up again and walk. The destiny is waiting. Time is waiting for us. May you be blessed. is waiting for us. May you be blessed. ---- Useful Links ---- Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul About the GOD: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba Videos: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/videos-Films-and-Documentaries-1 Do visit ALL the links. Accha namaste 000075
- How to handle bad company at work place?In Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021Nandighosh Ashiyana wrote to us the following question on 3 July 2018 : ''How to remain in peace if one is surrounded by a number of negative people in the work place, doing all the negative works and expecting the same from you, failing which they try to put you in trouble.'' Our Answer/Reply: Dear Brother We have received and read your message. So listen .ย Peace is something which is internal. Soul is full of peace.ย It is surely a challenge to remain peace and pure in such situation also. But it is possible with the power of Yog.ย Only RajYog (Yog with Almighty father- god) can help me to easily cross any situation. So we advice you to learn and practice Swamaan and RajYog both. Swamaan will help you to bring self respect and empower you.ย Swamaan Abhyaas:ย https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Swamaan in English:ย https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhr4ChV3EEM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtEe4C2MOHQT_tMLu0AuPJot * Learn Raja Yog meditation:ย https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation * Music and guided commentaries:ย https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary --- ADVICE --- Do 'Save' all above links on your phone or PC. Listen Swaman and Yog music and comentaries. Learning Raja Yog will definitely empower the soul. Do swaman abhyaas 3 times a day atleast. This wil be the start. Then you can learn Raja Yog with help of given links (commentaries). Practice and see the result. Write email to us when you do this. Accha Namaste 000017
- Overthinking, Emotional Hurt?In Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021Overthinking is cause of many problems. Some people create a mountain out of a small thing. Difficulties arrise in everyone's life. This is a test - how we deal and overcome. Some not only overcomes their own difficulty but also support others. Become a great soul. Here is an email received who is troubled by their own thoughts, while there is nothing like a problem outside. Here is our detail guidance. Script of Original Email Received What is the importance of all that my life ,career,future when my love is not with me? My parents loves me soo much but I can do nothing for them....they have expectations from me but I can't bear myself anymore...I am always missing someone. He was the only way for me to come out from all this negativety. But he left me alone.... in some position when I m in badly need for him....why..now what I will do. I have just nothing to be with, my confidence is almost in a minimum level..... Why I m the most unlucky girl who have just nothing without her horrible overthinking. Our Email Response To: Shreya From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vidhwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) The permanent solution is - Make yourself powerful, from within. Soul is all powerful, peaceful, pure and all loving. This is self realisation. Do take our 7 days course in which all knowledge is covered. 7 days course online Then saying that - ''A wise one will make a mountain like situation look like a tiny dust particle. And a fool makes a tiny dust into a mountain like problem.'' 1. Realise that it is only your ''thinking'' which is causing trouble to you. Do you REALLY think there exist any problem? No. Certainly no. Make you mind, your friend, otherwise it becomes a great enemy. You are an experienced soul. Now come on, get up and sit on the seat of Soul consciousness and control over your thoughts, your mind and senses. Soul you are very powerful. How can any small matter influence you?? Think about this. When there is wisdom is our mind, it remains stable. Naturally. Hence in present time divine wisdom is needed. Most important, do take the 7 days course -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course 2. Many souls are benefitted by practice of Swamaan - swaman means 'Self respects' of soul - which are: I am a Peaceful soul, I am a Pure soul, I am a loveful soul, and 'I am a Powerful soul'. This can be done with guided commentary already well resented here below. Do practice this EVERYDAY or whenever get time. Swamaan commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 3. To guide your journey, with the 7 day course & Swamaan abhyas (practice), please also watch below videos by BK Shivani Reason of Overthinking -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xp4yFJTvhjI Healing the Self -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt83hOCJSQY Heal emotional hurt -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BJFSHSx9Ns Empowering your mind (Hindi): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PyTWVjo5PHg With all this, also know that the permanent solution is to Make your mind your Friend. Become stable. Do not get influenced by emotions. Widely there is nothing to worry here. All is fine. Need anything? Search on BK Google - our Search engine -> www.bkgoogle.com namaste In Godly World Service 0000121
- Can I Join BK while living at Home?In Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021This question was asked by a brother who is studying for IAS and discovers knowledge shared at Brahma Kumaris. Email received on 1 July 2018. Original Question is below ''Om Shanti, Respected Brother/ sister, I am from Vizianagaram, Andhra Pradesh.. Now I'm preparing for IAS exams in Delhi.. Crack IAS exam is not my want its my aim of life. Now I would like to start my life as Brahma Kumar.. I want to go towards spirituality. And I'm ready to leave this society. I request you Please suggest me how to join Brahma Kumaris. I hope I'll get reply soon. Thank you. Our Answer: Good morning divine brother, Firstly, If you have watched the video on our About Us page, you will know that majority of BK lives at home only. Only few those who are surrendered, lives at Centres.ย So you can do your loukik study and work, should fulfill all your family responsibilities . While doing so, you regularly listen or read Murli. You can access Murli in 25+ languages on babamurli dot com and here: babamurli.org (daily uploaded) Officially, you can listen to Today's Murli on this page. and Read Daily Murli on babamurli org To become a BK, you do not have to stay at a centre, but have to follow these guidelines given by Shiv baba: How to Join - Guidelines andย Also whenver get time, do use these Godly Resources In resources, we have everything that will guide you in this spiritual journey (Classes, Sakar and Avyakt Murli audio, guided Raja Yog, eBooks, online store, etc..) Get Mobile Apps (for Android):ย https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris App for iOS (iPhone) - https://apps.apple.com/app/brahma-kumaris-sustenance/id1515178981 Namaste On Godly World Service BKGSU00443
- Marriage in Other CasteIn Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021This is the advise given to all the parents who resist the decision of their children to marry according to their choices in other caste. What is best to be done? Here is the step by step spiritual healing. And a way to find peace in the parents - child relationship. Original Email received from you Hi Didi, I have a question. I am a very conservative and traditional hindu. I come from a family where we practiced a lot of pooja and katha at home. Both my kids are atheist. They are oppose to marrying in the same faith. For them love is the priority and they can settle with other races. They both are dating from other races. Me, being so religious and conservative it really bothers me. What can I tell myself so I get peace or how can I handle this situation? Thanks. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapati Brahmakumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/ Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our response and advice for you. First of all we must clear our minds with the very true fact that 'Our Karma leads us to our Destiny'. No matter what we plan, decide, or foresee but our past karma will reap what we have sown.. So everyone we meet through the journey of our lives are the product of our Karmic Accounts. Only a Gyani and Yogi have the power to turn their Destiny because they have Shivbaba and power of Yog. But there's an exception to this too i.e the Gyan of Drama.. what is fixed in Drama will happen. As far as the choices of your children are considered.. You must keep this in your mind that their (your children's) karmic accounts will pull them to the path of settlement.. So be it a marriage in other caste or whatsoever like that. You are here powerless. You can't control anyone but yourself.. you can only control and change the line of your own thoughts.. You can't interfere in anyone else's Karmic Accounts. We understand, as you said, you belong to conservative Hindu background and it becomes difficult to accept leave alone intercaste marriages but even love marriages. To find more guidance, we advice you to search our forum (this forum) using the search box - search for related posts that will further guide you. You must understand and accept lovingly everyone because we are all are souls. Every soul in the world are child of one God ( incorporeal God Shiva). So please don't tangle yourself with the thoughts that you are very religious, belong to upper/lower/middle hindu class etc.. These are the titles of body. Your 'to be daughter in law or son in law from other caste' are a Soul. And if your children choose to marry them - it is their Karmic Accounts pulling them.. and at the end parents want their children to be happy.. So you should not go against your kids. Let them choose. We understand, there are a lot of insecurities related with inter-caste marriages- 1. Culture and upbringing of other soul 2. Food habits (veg/non veg) 3. Less or no knowledge of family's background 4. No power to control an adverse situation, as is no common relative/intermediary, in case of some issues 5. For the male family, no or less dowry (though dowry system is banned) & is the wife of adjusting nature or not? 6. For females, if other family is safe for her and is accepting her? 7. What other people in our society say or think or react about this? They may be other reason bothering you or some of these. Visit: Day to Day timetable to learn about our lifestyle which you can also adopt and see the transformation in life. Well marriages in same caste are also no guarantee nowadays because it is kaliyug, the end period of Drama.. What is bound to happen will happen.. I've personally seen many same caste marriages failing and leading to divorce. If other family's parents are against the marriage then you should counsel your kids. But If everyone is okay with it then you can let it. But the need of the hour, for now, is to be Happy and Content. You must not disturb your state of mind. You are a Soul, consider yourself a Soul and accept lovingly everyone who is going to be part of your family. Do also watch these videos : 1. https://youtu.be/3NRMm452JbQ 2. https://youtu.be/LiBSGIQqiFs 3. https://youtu.be/6v1rmYtjPM0 Please watch given videos. Also, You also should visit brahma kumaris center and take the 7 days free rajyoga meditation course.. you'll feel powerful about dealing with your own self and others... Need to ask more? Contact us again. Omshanti On Godfatherly Service 0000365
- Overcoming Negative Influences of othersIn Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021How to overcome negativity of influence of bad company at work place, or outside? Question: How can we stop the negative influence of people who are close to us and enable them to change their thinking pattern? Answer: This is a curious question. I donโt know if you have ever made the attempt to change anyone.ย I donโt believe I have met anyone who has been successful in that effort.ย In fact, it is possible to expend a great deal of time and energy in such pursuits, without getting any success. If you feel someone is having a negative influence on you, if you feel someone close is having a continuous negative influence on you, you do have a few options. One possibility is to ascertain what you think you are gaining by remaining close to that person.ย Is it possible that on some level you are attached to their negative influence?ย Is it possible that their negativity offers you an excuse to criticise them and complain?ย Some people even have a need for someone to criticise and complain about.ย Perhaps there is a habit of finding it good to blame someone close.ย There could even be a compulsion to exert an even more negative influence on the designated close person than they have on us, and we want to somehow outdo them. Sometimes it is even possible to believe, to know that we are right, and that we have the duty to correct another person and help them to conduct their life in a better way.ย Some even feel that others should not be so independent that they can conduct themselves however they want.ย We can even find ourselves so caught up with how badly-behaved others are that we become willing to sacrifice ourselves in order to improve them.ย We may feel this is a very charitable and responsible act. In the process, we can fail to live our own lives.ย We may fail to understand that each person has their own destiny which they are playing out whether we like it or not. ย We may fail to realise that like attracts like, and that if they are so negative, then it may be a sure sign that we might be equally negative. We may think we are so powerful that we can take over another personโs mind and alter their thinking patterns, change their karmic history and submit them to our superior will.ย We may continue with this activity for months, or even years. We may get frustrated that our efforts are not bearing the fruits that we desire.ย We may decide that they need to be forced to behave other than how they are, through exerting pressure on them, manipulating them, threatening them or devising ways to scare them into complying with our higher wishes for their benefit. These are a few common practices that some people like to do for those who are close to them, but who are exerting a negative influence. Alternatively, we could opt to mind our own business and get on with our own lives.ย We might even check whether we can get close to any individuals who are not negative and would not be offended by any negativity we may be harbouring within ourselves. It is said that you can judge people by the company they keep. What is the most valuable and useful way to use our mind, our intelligence and our time?ย Thought, breath and time are considered the most valuable assets.ย So, when we take time to think about a question, we might want to calculate whether it is worthwhile taking up that question.ย How will it benefit me to spend time on this or that question?ย What can I learn that profits me?ย Should I really take up questions that are of no concern to me? It is said there are three kinds of sins.ย One which is well known.ย We should not do what we are not supposed to do, we should not give sorrow.ย Second, we should not fail to do what we are supposed to do.ย Third, which is not so well known, we should not take sorrow.ย If we are negatively influenced by a close person, it means we are repeatedly taking sorrow from that person by our own volition.ย We do not wish them to give us sorrow, but we believe we are obligated to take the sorrow they are dishing out to us. According to the third variety of sin, it seems that we should be exercising our right to not take the sorrow.ย If that seems too hard, then probably we are not strong enough to handle the situation.ย A good solution would be to increase our personal strength and resilience.ย Then their negativity will not have a negative influence on us.ย Thus, our problem is solved. Visit main website: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com Karma: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/karma0054
- How to overcome Regret?In Question AnswersยทMay 28, 2021How to overcome regret and continue a better life? Realise your mistakes and resolve them whenever possible. How to move on, find life. Original Email received in Feb 2019 Om Shanti, I was in depression for last 10 months. My thoughts was not getting stop. Reason was the person with whom i was in a relationship has moved away and also my parents was not agreed for the same relation. He is Brahmin and i am Sindhi i still like him. I have made alot of mistakes during this last 10 months. I used to call him always and message him. at last he has blocked me as i was not getting normal... During the whole Journey of last 10 months i has made only mistakes, i was in fear always.. and then was getting regret for the same. i now realise that i have to move on and not to hold on guilt. Now. i watch the videos of Sister Shivani on You Tube.. I have recovered a lot. But as i listen to her, i realise that the person who moved away was perfect. As much as i listen to her i realise that i have lost the person who was emotionaly perfect. He was pure, powerful, peaceful, blissful and happiee soul. I always feel that i have lost a good person as my partner and i fear that if i could not forget him how would i accept the other one [one my parents will select for me. i am working on my soul qualities. I also have fear that i will have regret for the whole life that i have loose the good one.. Please Suggest Our Email Response To: Sister Mayuri & Everyone reading this Dear Divine Brother/Sister The email letter you wrote on 8 Feb is received and read. Here is our response. It is good that you have recognised the problem and the mistakes you were making. Self-realisation is the first step towards a positive solution. Next is you are actively seeking help to improve your situation. One thing you must understand is that whatever happens, it happens for good and there is a reason behind it which is always beneficial for us. You may identify the benefits now or realise it later, one cannot say. But it is universal law that everything happens for good. To truly love someone means to accept that person for who he is and give love. Not expecting anything in return. Instead of feeling pain and losing sleep just send him so much love that one day you will realise you are filled with love and you really donโt need another person to feel loved. You have everything within yourself. You are self-sufficient. See - Original 7 virtues of the Soul -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul Regarding your situation : Your karmic account with that person is not deep enough to form a life-long relationship that is why this is happening. Since, you have decided to move on, it is best to focus your energy on self-development and not think about the past. ~ ADVICE ~ Practice this swaman (self-respect affirmation) daily -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan Listen to this if possible - everyday -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2x3PZagCdPw * Related post * Difference between Love and Attachment -> https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/12/difference-between-love-and-attachment-2/ ~~ USEFUL LINKS ~~ Who am I : https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul What is Murli in BK? : https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli Namaste On Godfatherly Service 0000146
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