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- What is Manmanabhav?In Question Answers·April 29, 2023Many times you will hear or read this word in both Sakaar and Avyakt murlis. Baba says: "कर्म करते हुए मुझे याद करो... मन मेरे में लगाओ" which is translated to English as: "𝘙𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘦, 𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘔𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘦, 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘒𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘢" 👉The simple meaning of the word only means that "𝕖𝕟𝕘𝕒𝕘𝕖 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕕 𝕚𝕟 𝕞𝕖" मनमनाभव >> मन को मेरे में लगाओ ✱Expansion: Through the gyan murlis, baba says: "Mind, which wanders around in all unnecessary thoughts and emotions... control your mind and engage it only in me, visualise your-self as a divine light of consciousness (soul)... and remember me, your eternal spiritual father (Shiv Baba). And this fire of remembrance will burn the sins of your past births and you will be purified " 🌹RajYog (rajyoga meditation) is more of Karma-Yog. Meaning: We can stay in Yog with Shiv baba while doing our everyday work. This way, if you follow KaramYog, you will never get burdened or bored, isn't it? For example. When I go for a walk, that is the best moment of easy Yog. That is when I the most naturally feel hand in hand with Shiv baba. So "walking" became my time of "Yog". The below short video on "Manmana Bhav" explains the meaning and basic understanding of RajYog KarmaYog. Important Links 🎧 ज्ञान का सार (Essence of entire Knowledge)➤ https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/essence-of-shiv-baba-gyan-murli-hindi-with-english-translation-soul-talk (Hindi audio with English translation) and 🎧 this 'Soul talk' clip on 𝙈𝙖𝙣𝙈𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙗𝙝𝙖𝙫 𝙈𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙖 (KarmaYog) ➤ https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/mann-manabhav-maha-mantra-soul-talk-episode-15-om 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗵𝗮𝘃 𝘀𝗵𝘁𝗶𝘁𝗶 𝗸𝗼 𝗸𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝗽𝘁 𝗸𝗮𝗿𝗲? ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSqJdm8-gV4 (Bk Usha) Secrets of Gita: "𝙼𝚊𝚗𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚊𝚋𝚑𝚊𝚟 𝙼𝚊𝚗𝚝𝚛𝚊" ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOoOCEIpdfQ Song: "Manmanabhav ka Arth Jaan Le" ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twXM4Y3NPGM 👆Do visit ALL above links (videos) to gain maximum clarity on what 'Man-mana-bhav' means. On Godly Service, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)00590
- Centre in PakistanIn Question Answers·May 28, 2021Letter request to open a BK centre in Pakistan. God's message can be spread, Rajyoga meditation can be taught. Here is our response according to the present time. By now (2019), only 2 countries have not got Baba's centres. They are Pakistan and China. But soon, as the godly message will be spread, they will also be attracted towards this. There is a divine plan which is explained here as a response to an email of January 2019. Original Email Received Assalam o alikum, I am from Pakistan. I am a student of Karachi university in computer science department. Mein chahti hun ki Pakistan main abhi aapke centers ho jahan yeh RajYoga meditation seekhaye jaye or logn k maslun ka haal diya jaye. Shiv baba ka parichay diya jaye. I really want to work with you all as a volunteer. I follow sister Shivani's lectures. Agar aesa possilbe ho to zaror initiate kare. I really will to work hard for this purpose. THANK YOU. Our Email Response Dear Divine Brother/Sister Good evening ( There are links in this email to guide you ahead. Visit and explore ) Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response. As you know, by now (2019), there is no Rajyoga centre in Pakistan as their government did not permit as they only want to strictly believe in Islam. So because of such governance, souls are still untouched by God's message. However, we know that at the right time, such things will change. The state of Pakistan will soon merge with its neighbour to be called 'Bharat'. Gates will open. God's message will be hearb to all corners of the world in all possible ways. --------- Aapne likha ki Karachi se hai aap. Jaante ho, is Gyan Yagya ki saruvaat Karachi se hi hui thi. Aapka bhagya ki aap bhi aaj vahi ho. Shayad isliye aapko yeh Prerna (inspiration) aayi hongi. Aapki good wish hai ki Pakistan me bhi centres ho. Lekin abhi to centres nahi hai. Baat hai badi wonderful - puri duniya me yeh Ishwariya University ke centres hai, lekin vaha nahi hai jaha Tapasya ki gayi thi from 1938 to 1950. (Source: History of Yagya) Centre locator: http://www.brahmakumaris.org/centre-locator Agar positive direction me hi dekha jaye, to aap ek bahut acchi service kar sakte ho. Jaha par aaj bhi Khuda ka sandesh (message) nahi mila hai, vaha aap yeh service karo - Letter print karke sabhi ke ghar post karke aana, internet aur social media dwara service bahut ho sakti hai. Yeh sab aap kar sakti ho thode hi time me. There are many Internet services available with that you can learn everything sitting at your home. Visit Online Services: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/online-services Sabse behtar service hai Yog ka daan. Iske liye Soul consciousness ka bahut abhyas chahiye aur Pavitrata. Atmao ko Yog se Shanti, Pyaar aur Shakti ka daan dena -isko Sakaash kaha jata hai. (Visit: What is Saskash?) Tell us when and How did you come to know about Prajapita Brahma Kumaris. How did you go ahead ? Tell more about yourself, your history. *** IMPORTANT *** You may know about the basic 7 days course which is the introduction in essence of the Godly knowledge given by God in Murlis. You may take this course online (as there are no centres near you). 7 days course online: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course This course has been guided with images, audio and videos in both Eng and Hindi. First transform your life and be an example. Remain in touch in emails. Whatever you need, search on BK Google www.bkgoogle.com (A divine search engine for BK) Accha namaste Khuda Hafiz On Godly World Service 00002941
- Love, Relationship and Break Up, Our GuidanceIn Question Answers·May 28, 2021Received an email about love from an 18 year old girl from India. She fell in love with someone and then had a break up in their relationship. She was a regular listener of BK Shivani's spiritual lectures and hence writes to us for a solution as she is feeling down. Original Email received: I am Nilanjana Das. I live in Kolkata and i am of 18 years, a student. I recently had a bad break up and this was my first relationship. Though it was the guy who first professed his love to me, at last he ended the relationship by saying that he does not love me at all and blamed me for no reason. Maybe, i did not come up to his expectations but i really loved him and tried to make him happy. But i failed. I am a regular follower of sister Shivani's youtube videos and trying to come out of the situation but i am not able to forget him. His words and promises are ringing in my ears. Please help me. What must i do to come out of this situation. And one more question is, are good deeds really rewarded? Our Email Answer Nilanjana You are a regular listener of Brahma Kumari (BK) Shivani and hence you would have watched Awakening episodes. It is seen that today's young children having disinterest in life after failing in love (called break up). When they don't get what they want, they believe it is the end. This is because of not knowing what ''love'' means. You need understanding of What love is and what love means. Here is a nice explanation by Sandeep Maheshwari: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_1bFkC2tRY and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6gEkCp0f08 Watch both videos and you will understand the true meaning of love. Now that you know, Do you think such a relationship exist between you and anyone else? Of course, a parent has immense love for their children. But can you think of anyone like this who can love you unconditional and yet you need not to even see him? What is love? - Love means to become one with someone and there is NO separation - there is unconditional acceptance and always there for each other. Only one GOD can love you like this. He is the ocean of knowledge, an ocean of love. Know about God (the Supreme soul)> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba Our invitation to Marry to God: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/marry-to-god-shiv-baba-a-message-for-kumaris ---- Useful videos ---- Attachment is not love - BK shivani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE Spiritual in Life - FULL playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHupP3idhQ0&index=4&list=PL6mmKavEt550gQnky1pg88MKiX9cZSz2L Do watch all provided videos and the last playlist given of 'Spirituality in life' to learn the way of living. We hope you will get the aim of this great human life through services given like Awakening, PMTV, Website and more. PMTV live: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/pmtv-live Awakening Audio episodes: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes Do save above links to visit when you get free time. Need anything? Email us. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 0000519
- Teacher and Students in a collegeIn Question Answers·May 28, 2021Question asked by Suoy Das, a college teacher (lecturer) and here is the answer we gave. Question: How to handle the students when they misbehave? I am a teacher..soft by nature..I am teaching in a public school in Dhanbad Jharhand...my problem is that I can't handle students..for this I am being repeatedly reminded by higher authorities...students make fun of me.. All create unrest and tension in me.throughout the day i keep blessing students..but there is no change in my situation..I am very sad for this..I practice meditation daily, listen to murli..but my problem still persists.. Please help..suggest what to do to regain my class control..students are very ill behaved, use abusive language, least interested in studies.. Help me BABA Our Answer: Sweet Divine Brother 1. See anger is certainly the weakness of human being. To silent the class, the teacher has to heal the disturbance present in today's children. Dear brother, we recommend you to use the powers of Raja Yog. As you have learn this Supreme Yog, through which a Soul is filled with powers and virtues, now you can show it in practical life. So you should firstly silent your own inner self. When you are stable, you can stable the whole class, all the souls. HOW?: Keep a little smile on your face the whole time of class. If noise in class, treat them as your friends and tell that much peace is essential for life. If they don;t listen, be detached and ignore the noise. They will surely learn their lesson. If authority asks you, tell them that students did not listen. Why should you get disturbed for their mistakes?? How to See this? You should take this as your test. As your teacher is the highest teacher of universe, the God himself, so as your exam will be - highest and difficult. If you pass this exam, you will get the result, not for 1 or 2 births, but for 21 births (half Kalp). Here, virtues of Mama will guide you very much. Mamma Saraswati Documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNLtBSoU4r0 ''If a human being follows the path shown by God (the creator and maintainer of world) the he can live happily no matter where and with whom he lives.'' ** Useful Resources for You ** 1. Guided commentaries: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 2. Practice this Swaman daily Morning when you wake up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 3. if some student ask, tell them also to learn RajYoga Mediation . When they see the difference in you, they will ask you - What has happened> * What is Raja Yog: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Your all questions are answers. See this email again whenever in need. 'Save' those above links URLs of music, swaman and guided rajayoga. Accha Namaste 000020
- Forget Past Memories & Move OnIn Question Answers·April 10, 2022This is our in-detail guidance written to an individual seeking guidance on how to forget past events, move ahead in life, and re-create life by taking better decisions. How to forgive and forget? (Please use the following as per your exact situation) ✶Background ➙ Forgiving and Forgetting are 2 different things. Forgiving the self or someone else for their deeds is a simple "decision" which you can take... In this, spiritual wisdom and this understanding of "Karmic Patterns" does help. 🌴 Forgetting on other hand, is more of the "memory" which is hardly in our control. Nor is it necessary to try to forget something. In fact, the more you remember an event or a person (or his/her deeds and relationship you shared), the more that particular memory is "solidified" in the mind. 🌴Therefore, the best way to FORGET an event or a person, is to first send them vibrations of peace and blessings and then switch your mind back to your life... and move on. For this exactly, some very useful videos are provided on this response. ➤ Start practising Affirmations/Swamaan⇗ daily morning and before sleep to elevate the spiritual/mental state. 🌻Consciously create such uplifting thoughts so as to increase your soul power. By thoughtfully replacing negative and waste thoughts with positive thoughts, you are developing a new thinking pattern. DO THIS CONSCIOUSLY for some time and after say a few months, as per the intensity of swaman practise, it will become your natural/default thinking pattern. 🌺Create new beautiful happy memories to replace old ones. Create a new chapter, if not with others than with yourself (i.e. self-talk, introversion, self-inspection, and spending time with yourself). ➤Give time for daily meditation. Along with meditation, working on your way of thinking & way of doing things will serve you in best way. Meditation gives us strength and develops silence power but we have to use it wisely in our daily life to get results. Learn RajYoga meditation from our official guide ➤ https://www.shivbabas.org/rajyoga-meditation ✤ Videos for You ✤ Speaker: BK Sister Shivani (Hindi, English mix) 1. Letting go of past hurt ➤ https://youtu.be/_vs1-O8Kqq8 2. How to forget the past ➤ https://youtu.be/zpR4hc8ZfVw 3. How to release hurt & pain ➤ https://youtu.be/bFIrvL5mJD0 4. Release old impressions about people ➤ https://youtu.be/OZk0WwfbaWs 5. MOVING ON from the Past ➤ https://youtu.be/tJZa2ZmQ7zg (English) ☝️Please watch all above given 5 videos one by one, in your free time... ✱ADVISE 👉 We recommend doing Swamaan Abhyas (practising affirmations) to empower the self from within, reminding ourself of our original virtues, our original powers. ★Swaman Guide ➤ What is Swamaan and HOW TO practise it on this PDF 👉 https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf अच्छा... On Godly Service, Manager, Samadhan, SBSI00540
- Complaint of a Sister at centre, and our ResponseIn Question Answers·May 28, 2021We received a complaint for a regional centre's incharge sisters, that they demand for money for facilities that they themselved need or to arrange visits to madhuban. This is our response. Original Email as we received fromGuarav on 19th Sep Dear concern This is for your kind information that my mother used to go in local om shanti center in near by area from last 1yr, and feel like those Didi's are available in the center ,force almost everyone to give more then required money to them for going to mount Abu or any near by City like they are going to gurgaon tomorrow i.e. 20/9/2018 for janki Dadi satsang, they almost made my mother cry for not agreeing to give dakshina amount of RS. 500 exactly in addition to convince, and daily they make people feel insulted by any of the reasons. I just want to know is it necessary Everytime to give dakshina exactly you want, is this thing is in policy of bharma kumaris? I will let you know the complete address once get any revert. Regards! Our Response adn Guidance Dear Divine Brother/Sister Your letter is received by us. You are received. No Gaurav, it is not permitted by Shiv baba to demand money, not even a single rupee for any cause. It is law within our family of Brahma Kumari and Kumar, to arrange money for service by ourself. We never should ask anyone from outside for money. They may give a room for daily murli class. Money should not be asked. But if those sisters at any centre are doing this, they are doing a GREAT disservice in Yagya. They are unaware of God has come. They should and will be punished. Baba is seeing everything. Give the address of the local centre. You wish to know more, please read the History page to know the complete history and hence you wil know the truth and the life of a true Brahma Kumari: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history Please read and listen the audios also. If you have any question, visit FAQ page: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/faq OR search on www.bkgoogle.com Waiting for your response. In God Fatherly World Service 00 Further Conversation Email from Gaurav on 20th Sep Respected concern Om shanti BK Sunita is her name from sector-15 centre sonepat, Haryana. 04 old and middle age people left going in centre after that janki Dadi concern in gurgaon only because of the sister sunita and her pathetic behavior towards people, someone come today in evening murli time to my mother at my place and she literally cried that she want to go at the centre but she will not go only because of her extremely rude behavior towards people. Hoping for the required action and kindly not share my mail I'd or name against same Regards! Our 2nd Response Dear Gaurav, Understand this. May be you are right about. Know that there are very very few complaints like this. Because mostly we know that all surrendered sisters (or say most of them) are selflessly serving. But yet, it is certainly possible that such a wrong person may have entered the centre who is going against the Shrimat. But you HAVE TO give evidence of this. Make a small video of BK Sunita when you go and meet at the centre. Go in the evening time. Please do this. Proof is must. Yes, baba knows. But we human souls do not know and need proof. You are the medium Will you send a video in proof? See how sisters do services: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2sdEBtjQAcQ 2nd: As said, you do not need to visit centres. Science has given a device (mobile phone) in which at present, there are MANY ways to listen Gyan murli. 1. Website for murli: babamurli.com 2. YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCY0tVDjHZ7F1zHu2Jj9uDTQ 3. Mobile Apps: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Accha namaste 0000779
- I want to Join the AshramIn Question Answers·May 28, 2021My family doesn't allow me to follow Brahma Kumaris (Shiv baba's shrimat) nor allow to surrender. I want to live a BK lifestyle, do world service and live with celibacy. Also not wish to marry, as my parents says..' We receive such emails regularly where Kumari or Kumar shares their life experience and seeks for guidance. We give a personal response to eveyrone. But generally, the solution is the same. In this article cum Q and A, you will learn the true meaning of Shiv baba's shrimat and How should a soul follow this shrimat in life? Everything is explained + links are given for more information. Original Question via Email Om Shanti bhaiji Myself Harshita and I am in this Gyan since 6 years but my parents are totally against this Gyan ..Neither they will allowed me to go center nor allowed to follow shrimat such as food... they want to marry me but I can't do.... Bcoz for me, baba is everything & I want a Bk lifestyle.... I tried a lot but not able to convince them... Now a days they are not allowed me to go outside the home.... What should be done by me to convinced them? Because center incharge di gave me a shreemat that U will come at center after convinced them. I don't want to stay at home.... I want to do service... live a pure brahmakumari life... What should I do to convince them ? Please Bhaiji suggest something by which I will convince them. Your sister Harshita Our Email Response + Guidance For: Brahma Kumari Harshita (and Everyone reading, who has similar situation in life) Good Morning Your letter is received. You are in Gyaan since 6 years. You showed your wish to surrender fully in Yagya. Now listen this. You already are a surrendered soul. As you follow the shrimat, the one who follows the shrimat are surrendered. Is it possible to follow the shrimat 100% while staying with loukik family and fulfiling loukik responsibility? Yes. Definitely. There are many examples of this. Most of baba's children stay at home and study and also do a good service. I am writing this. I also live with loukik family and do all these services. So can you not? If you find it hard to do Purusharth while staying at your loukik home, then is it a weakness or strength of soul? Who is better? 1. One who does service at centre 2. One who does service while staying at home (with balance in both - loukik and aloukik) Who will be better? What does shrimat say? Shrimat says: Become pure and take the Gyaan while staying at your place. Freedom is given to all - some are comfortable to stay at home and follow 100% shrimat & some are unable to do this and hence they prefer staying at a centre. One more thing to know - if you stay at centre, then your responsibility increases - because you are now eating from baba's Bhandara and stay at baba's home. So you MUST never go against the shrimat or against values of Brahman jeevan . Your life then only is for Purusharth and Service. If you can do this, then you are free to join the ashram. Baba gives permission. Yet shrimat is given for balance of Loukik and Aloukik. Listen this audio: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1O1emkO2aZrA5YVe4VxTxiOLq91P44nBT/view?usp=sharing ~ MESSAGE ~ Make your decision - where will you like to stay? What does your intellect (buddhi) say? Then we will guide you ahead. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 0000193
- Healing Cancer with RajYogaIn Question Answers·May 28, 2021Healing any disease (eg: cancer) with practice of Raja Yog and Swamaan abhyas. This is guided and explained in this post. It is for all who need this help. Your Email/ Urgent message on 3 Sept 2019: I don’t know where to begin. Right now I am going through mix emotions, afraid, scared, fearful, hopeful but feeling helpless as I have recently learned about my husband’s sickness. I have been practising Rajyoga meditation since last year and a half. …my husband Hitesh have recently been diagnosed with Rectal Cancer. It is a stage 3 cancer and per doctors, he will have to go through Chemo-radiation and 3 surgeries. It has been 3 weeks since we have come to know about his sickness and since then we have lost our peace and our hearts are filled with fear and helplessness. I feel like if there is any faith and true love in my request then he will send someone to give us that strength, hope and solution out of this situation. Our Guided Response We at BK RajYog centres, daily give sakash (vibrations) to all souls of world. ''Let good happen to all'' Dear divine Sister/Brother, You have found God and whom else is needed? Yet until the soul becomes completely pure, it needs guidance from Baba's murli. This is pure knowledge through which soul gets the wings to fly anywhere. Know everything. This world is yours my child. Having bounded by the 5 illnesses (5 vikar), a human being becomes limited and unempowered. You know that every Soul has to finish his Karmic account before we all return back to home. Your present life's mate (husband) have been supportive to you for this 1.5 years of your New life. You have experienced living a pure family life. As baba says in Murli, 'become pure while you live with loukik family'. You have done this now. But the soul has to go somewhere else to finish his other karmic accounts. What is best for you is to empower him by giving vibrations, BUT not to try to stop him from leaving your life. By demanding him to stay, you display 'desire' and 'greed' in the sense. But as a GOD's child, you are a 'bestower' for all world souls, aren't you? ✤ Solution is Swamaan Abhyas ✤ By practice of Swamaan and RajYog, many have recovered from such illness. What is Swamaan? It is a practice to become 'Soul conscious' and experience the self as a 'healer' and all-powerful. This practice empowers our mind to heal the body. Imagine yourself as a point of light 'soul' sitting in the centre of your forehead and then imagine the soul is giving powerful vibrations to the body and experience that the body is getting healed... HOW TO DO? Watch these videos to practice Swamaan in early morning and before sleep: 1. Master Sarva Shaktivaan -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1hIMx74UgQ 2. All Swamaan -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHqE2-7jCLo AND Read: Article on Swamaan -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Swaman-in-Hindi AND watch this episode of Samadhan -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOoPmpF8KFg (topic: Healing body through RajYog) ------------- Raja Yog meditation has given wings to the souls of world. Through this Yog, we get a mental connection with GOD, the Supreme soul. Thus receive peace, purity, love and powers from God. Please learn here -> What is Raja Yog meditation? Also, we have a TV series called ''Awakening with Brahma Kumaris''. Sit with family to watch. VERY beneficial for life. Here are ALL episodes -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm or Watch on YouTube -> https://www.youtube.com/bkshivani * Useful links for you * (Save/Bookmark) Our Videos -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Articles in English & Hindi-> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Explore Sitemap -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything else? Use BK Google - bkgoogle.com (Our search engine) Accha namaste oo Signature: On Godfatherly (Godly) Service to the World SoulsBKGU (BrahmaKumaris Godly University) bkgsu.com Mount Abu, Rajasthan, India 0000509
- How to Resolve a Husband-Wife Conflict?In Question Answers·May 8, 2022This is our in-detail guidance on "General & Practical Advise on Husband Wife Relationship" (To Resolve Conflict) Note: This guidance and advise is given to the wife. But even a husband can use this by just replacing the word "wife" with "husband" (and vice versa) wherever you find on this post. Case: Here a wife was seeking help regarding her husband being overpowering with anger issues. Guidance is given to resolve this relationship peacefully and wisely with a spiritual insight on "karmic laws" and a regular practise of affirmations (Swamaan) and RajYog meditation. ✶Foreword ➤ This is a draft & our 'in-general' advice on the above matter. It covers main/imp points and it is onto the person how they apply this spiritual insight and advice as per their situation. 🌱We understand that the life is designed by our own deeds (karma). Just as that, your relationships are designed by how you and the other person share a karmic account or thoughts about each other, or had shared in past life/lives. 🌿The nature of your relationship with your husband's soul is caused by the karmic account which you both souls had shared during past birth/s (journey) ☘️In this in-detail guidance, we are giving you "general advise" and insight/wisdom that true love is in detachment from your expectations from the other person. True Love means: "respecting each other", "well-wishing" for each other, "being each other's true friend", and being a "soul-mate" of each other. ★Important 👉 While taking ANY step forward in this relationship, your STATE OF MIND should be calm, clear and detached. This is must. When your state of mind is clear and detached from temporary emotion/feelings, you will be able to make the better choice, which will reward you in the future. 🌻 When you are 'attached' to someone, you can never be fully satisfied and thus happy. God, the Supreme Soul himself has taught us, that true love is when you stay 'detached' from other person's behaviour and yet help them to transform/overcome their weakness. You can apply this wisdom and help your husband to overcome his weakness (of anger); thus resolve the situation peacefully... ✤ Practical Wisdom ✤ 👉 When and if your husband is in a bad mood, you should calm him down... For example: Cook his favourite food, give a head massage, put a relaxing music & best to put on our "Awakening with Brahma Kumaris" series on YouTube while you eat the dinner together. 👉Watch the series on "Relationship management" hosted by Sister Shivani. 🌿Here is full playlist 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXMRxwyzVe0&list=PL6mmKavEt551HqVGwRL1hqVi9TQD-03Hp (Save this YouTube playlist) ☘️Find more such "relationship" related talks by Sister Shivani (on YouTube) which would be surely helpful to you in many ways... Just search youtube as "Bk shivani on healing relationship" or similar. True Meaning of Love The meaning of a true love is to be pure... Love teaches also to sacrifice. We should put our ego besides and develop selfless love for each other... This way, every relationship can be beautiful. Keep the aim to maintain peace and harmony in your home, in your life, no matter what happen. Because remember that tomorrow you will forget the harsh words of your husband... time heals every wound. The Other Option Along with the above-shared guidance on resolving the situation, we also provide a practical way out in case of a more challenging circumstance. So, if the situation becomes out of control, it is best to leave your husband alone and go away from him for a while... And in wider sense, if you are financially independent, then taking a divorce is a wiser and easier option. ➥ The videos and Awakening episodes on 'Healing Relationship' and 'Karmic Patterns' (search on YT) will help you a lot in this process to understand the law of karma/soul connections and resolve any situation peacefully... Peace & Patience Wins 🌷When your husband will see you staying CALM, always smiling and not reacting to his anger, even he will calm down. The situation will resolve, and you both will live in harmony... This is just as water cools down the fire... For this, respecting each other is also important. ➥ See each other as a "companion" and a child of God... Know that we all human beings have both virtues and weaknesses... It is upto us what we want to see in others. If you go into a conflict, remember his virtues (everything good about him). Tip: Learn 7 virtues of Soul Remember: "When our mind is at peace, there is clarity in our thoughts. When there is clarity in thoughts, we take the right decision, which leads to a better, favourable future for us." How to Keep Mind calm & peaceful? Learn the method, and then practice RajYog meditation... Here is the best guidebook 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/rajyoga-meditation (on this page, learn the method, aim and purpose of RajYoga meditation... and then start practice using the guided commentaries.... for this, click "Start Now" button on above page) 🌷This is all from us... Now you apply the given advice as per your situation and comfort. Make the better choice with a clear and detached state of mind. Blessings... On Godly World Service, Manager, Samadhan, Shiv Baba Services Initiative00568
- Not loved by Parents?In Question Answers·May 28, 2021Parents are also a teacher who teach the child the way of living. In today's time some parents do not or could not give enough time in upbringing of their children due to variety reasons. Here was such case where a girl child born in a wealthy and educated family feels if she is not loved or cared enough by her parents. Here is our guidance for upliftment. Original Email Received Hello ma'am, this is padmasna. I m highly inspired by your thoughts .I always look for your videos whenever I am trapped in any situation .To start with, I m a 24 yr old girl and I am so much trapped in my thoughts and I cannot find a conclusion. I have been staying in Delhi (India) since last 9 years but I come from Bihar... my parents stay in Bihar only. My parents were never there in a needful time. Neither physically nor emotionally... like not even 4 words of generosity on phone. Not understanding is one thing but they don't even try to understand the problems I face... infact it feels like they r not interested. They just want to give money nd escape all other responsibilities of being a parent. Sometimes I also feel pichle janam ke karm honge... I will be really grateful to u if u guide my thoughts and give it the right direction. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Asker & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Good morning Aapka patra mila. This is the response to your email letter received on 8 March 2019. Described your story but you didn't clarify the reason of having any problem. Yes it can be understood that every child should and must receive love and acceptance from their parents. You have written your thoughts and now you are in safe hands. Dear Divine Sister You concluded by saying that you feel ''Yeh ichle janam ke karam honge..'' Yeh satya bhi hai. Har atma me yeh andruni shakti hai - jise ''6th sense'' ya sadharan shabdo me ''atma ki aawaz'' kaha jata hai. Aap apne prasno ka javaab pehle se hi jaante ho. Yeh dekho ParamAtma ki wonderul gift hai. Kisi ko bhi puchne ki zarurat nahi. Lekin aaj aapko Sandesh jaroor denge ki aap apne Jeevan ka faisla kar sake. Kaha jana hai... Dekho jo beet gaya so beet gaya. Aaj behtar hai aur Purusharth karke aane wale kal ko aur bhi behtar banana hai. Jo bhi hua, acche ke liye hi hua. Jo bhi hota hai, vo humare pichle karma ka 'result' hi hai. Yeh universal law hai. Reference: Karma - Law & living Jab aapko apne loukik mata-pita dwara pyaar na mila, tabhi to aap sabhi atmao ke pita (Parampita ParamAtma) ke connection me aayi na. Aise hi samjho ki jo bhi hua, accha hi hua. Abhi aapko yeh Paramatam Sandesh diya ja raha hai ki ''Vo aa chuka hai, jisko sabhi manusya khoj rahe hai, prarthna karte hai..'' Vo hai humara Baap (father) - unka yeh part hai - vo aate hai vishwa me Satyug ki sthapna karne - sukh ki duniya banate hai. Phir usme koun ayenge? Vo ayenge jisne Baap ko pehchana - Those souls will come in the new world who recognised the father when he came at the end of Kaliyug. MahaBharat Geeta me bhi likha hai - ''Yada Yada Hi Dharmasya...'' Jab duniya me adharma ki pradhanta aur dharma ki glani hoti hai, tab aata hu... Sab kuch yaha nahi likh sakte. Yeh website par sab jaankari hai - About Us (Introduction): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Bhagwan humara mata-pita hai (Spiritual parent hai). Yeh Geet sune: Tu Pyaar Ka Sagar Hai To aap ab Pyaar ke sagar dwara unlimited Pyaar ka anubhav karo. Yeh humara par-loukik mata-pita hai. Bhavna se sabhi bhagwan ko yaad karte hai. BK Shivani ko aap sunte honge. ''Awakening with BrahmaKumaris'' ke sabhi episodes aapko yaha milenge -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm Audio episodes (playlist) -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes * Videos Gallery (must visit): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Mobile apps -> For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Waiting for your response. Namaste On Godly World Service 00://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us0044
- Taking Money at a BK centreIn Question Answers·May 28, 2021An email as to report an activity going on a BK centre - A Sister was taking money in the name of Brahma Kumaris and events management. Here was our response and guidance for the asker and his family who is a faithful child of Shiv baba, a regular godly student. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 Dear concern This is for your kind information that my mother used to go in local om shanti center in near by area from last 1yr, and feel like those Didi's are available in the center ,force almost everyone to give more then required money to them for going to mount Abu or any near by City like they are going to gurgaon tomorrow i.e. 20/9/2018 for janki Dadi satsang, they almost made my mother cry for not agreeing to give dakshina amount of RS. 500 exactly in addition to convince, and daily they make people feel insulted by any of the reasons. I just want to know is it necessary Everytime to give dakshina exactly you want, is this thing is in policy of brahma kumaris? I will let you know the complete address once get any revert. Regards! Our Email Response Dear Divine Brother/Sister Your letter is received by us. You are received. No Gaurav, it is not permitted by Shiv baba to demand money, not even a single rupee for any cause. It is law within our family of Brahma Kumari and Kumar, to arrange money for service by ourself. We never should ask anyone from outside for money. They may give a room for daily murli class. Money should not be asked. But if those sisters at any centre are doing this, they are doing a GREAT disservice in Yagya. They are unaware of God has come. They should and will be punished. While you or me are not a judge to announce the judgement. There are many things we do not know - Why do a good soul does an inaccurate karma? There must be a reason. But surely now as we have knowledge of both good and bad, we must choose the good always. The purpose of this knowledge given by the God father (Shiv baba) is also to make us pure and divine souls, which we were initially. All souls are pure and perfect when they first come into the corporeal world (to play their part in World Drama). Then they do karma and according to their karma is decided their next birth. No one goes back until the end of the cycle. Now is that great time of ''transformation'' You wish to know more, please read the History page to know the complete history and hence you wil know the truth and the life of a true Brahma Kumari: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history Also know that there are very very few complaints like this. Because mostly we know that all surrendered sisters (or say most of them) are selflessly serving. But yet, it is certainly possible that such a wrong person may have entered the centre who is going against the Shrimat. I surely know the present condition of some Baba's centres. Some souls are being living at centres but not following the Shrimat of Shiv Baba (God). But do you know more? Only 5% of such souls exist. 90 to 95% are making efforts according to the shrimat by their own extent - to transform the self first and then guide brothers and sisters. Here is an example you may know - BK Shivani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OO8BPHSHSlg (live event) Above is a video clip which is from Delhi where this spiritual meeting was organised and this is a speech from bk shivani. So as said, a majority of souls are good. Only a few are so who are going on wrong path against the shrimat. They will surely suffer in the end. You DO NOT need to see them. Do not look to them. Do not go near them. Your attention is and should be towards God, our eternal father who has come here and teaching us this knowledge. This is called Murli. What is Murli?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli 108 points of Shrimat (Hindi): http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Pyare%20Bapdada%20Ki%20108%20Shrimat.htm Please read on website pages and listen the videos also. If you have any question, visit FAQ page OR Search on our Search engine: www.bkgoogle.com On God Fatherly World Service 0000163
- Should I Marry him?In Question Answers·May 28, 2021Such emails come to us regularly when the person seeks advice before or after the marriage. Here, this sister did not want to marry to anyone in the path, but wish to have a long-lasting and understanding relationship. We guided this Kumari towards Brahmcharya (celibacy) as a way of living taught by our Supreme father (God) Original Email Received Dear Sister Shivani, Since childhood I am watching your program at home but I couldn't connect or change myself. But I am still trying. I am not married. I am an independent girl. It's been long time I am facing high pressure of getting married. As per them if you got the tag of marriage at a right age then it's well, wether your after marriage life isn't good. That's ok because compromise is the second name of marriage. But they say understanding comes after marriage and it needs to be created. You can't understand to a person over phone calls and meeting. I am looking for a person with whom I'll spend rest of life. It's about entire life not just few weeks or months. Everyday I try to keep myself happy but when I come back home it gets ruined. Because they just have one topic to talk about. Thanks and best regards Our Email Response+ Guidance To: A Kumari From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Divine Sister As you said, the purpose is to either convince parents not to marry OR to convince yourself to marry, but with a right person. And how can one ''judge'' the qualities of a person. So here is our advice. ''For now, you should not think about this. As you said, you have a good job where you can focus and be happy. When you reach your home, try to avoid any thoughts or family discussions which may disturb your stage of happiness. Better is to avoid. There is a big reason why we preach 'celibacy' (non-partnership) as a true way of living.'' If you are in a proper connection with us, you should know that we teach and preach ''celibacy'', as a way of living. Thus not to get married is also included. Why? You will know - first you visit this article -> Celibacy -A way of living. Continue to read -> Not to indulge in making relationships as this time is such that 'lust' emerges and this lust, is our greatest enemy. God himself has made this announcement - ''Conquer this enemy and you will conquer over the world (spiritually).'' Moreover, we all are souls - when we have a body - we become Brothers and Sisters - How then can we marry? There can be many questions regarding what exactly means to conquer lust - it simply means - ''Become Soul Conscious''. I am a soul, a point of divine light and might. I am a child of the Supreme Soul (god). This is pure knowledge and a source of immense spiritual joy. Why Purity? Answer: When one indulges in bodily pleasure, he forgets that he is a soul (not this body). And that this body will die/end. As if we regard ourself a the clothes we wear. But now Shiv Baba (our spiritual father/Supreme soul) explains - You are a pure peaceful soul. It is no way forced on you. It is now your choice - to accept the promise of God (to become pure) or to walk on the path chosen by many today. Now you know that being Soul conscious itself gets you inner peace, joy and powers - what more is needed? Now if your question is - HOW TO CONVINCE MY PARENTS for not to marry..?, then come and read our guidance on -> https://bkarticles.blog/2019/05/19/not-want-to-marry-but-parents/ (Not want to Marry) ( We understand your background and thus giving you many guidelines, as we know it is not easy to suddenly believe that GOD has come and this Celibacy can be possible.) God has gifted you this opportunity - You wrote email to us - you got this. Now is your choice - whether to regard this guidance by God or to ignore. If you chose to regard, please come and know about God's coming, the story and more -> ABOUT US (introduction) Then visit our online 7 days course, where you will learn the essence of all God-given knowledge -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Also visit when get time -> How to Become BK while living in family? Waiting for your decision & response. On Godly World Service 000072
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