Understanding Respect & Regard
Regard and respect are different, contrary to popular belief. Regard is an external gesture of courtesies and protocols, given for peopleโs roles and positions. Respect is internal, a feeling and vibration radiated for who the person is. Regard may vary, but respect should be equal for everyone. What are your parameters for respecting people and giving regard to them? How well do you treat someone who is junior to you by age or designation, or has achieved lesser than you? Do you believe regard is the same as respect? Our roles and positions in society are different. We called the roles higher and lower. We also mixed respect and regard.
โค๐๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ. ๐๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐โ๐ฌ ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ, ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ. We need to extend courtesies and follow protocols externally, according to people's roles and positions. So regard is for peopleโs role. Respect is for the being, for who we are. Since we are all equally pure, equally beautiful, and equal beings, respect should not vary. Every individual is to be equally and uniformly respected. Radiate nice thoughts, speak well, and behave cordially with people. This is how respect radiates to them. Your regard can vary based on what they have, but your respect for them shouldnโt.
โค๐๐๐จ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ฃ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐ค๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ง๐๐ก๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ. Give respect for the Being and give regard for their Doing. Extend regard for peopleโs age, knowledge, achievements, wealth, roles or position. Do not equate regard with respect. Your respect should not change according to peopleโs roles. There can be differences of opinion but you continue to respect them. Respect yourself and radiate respect to all. Respect every individual for who they are, for their qualities, nature.
โคYour every interaction should begin with a pure vibration to the individual. Before meeting anyone, first create a thought for them as a ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐๐ถ๐ณ๐๐น ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ณ๐๐น ๐๐ผ๐๐น and then you talk to them and come into action. Respect everyone by accepting their behavior and not questioning it. Connect to who they are and before connecting to the roles they play, build a foundation of authentic respect. Your vibrations of thoughts, words, and behaviour should be the same for everyone, your respect should be uniform for everyone.
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