Donโt Copy Other People, Be Your Own Good Self
Each of us has grown up with values, and taught to be kind to everyone around us. But we often exhibit a behaviour of dependency โ we are nice to people only when they are nice to us. If they behave wrongly with us in small or big ways, we feel an impulse to strike back in the name of tit for tat or an eye for an eye. We copy peopleโs wrong behaviors and give up our inherent goodness. From today, start living by your own value-compass, no matter what. Holding on to your qualities when you are tempted to copy othersโ wrong behaviour, increases your inner power. ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ - Irrespective of my environment and people, I use my original qualities in every situation. Irrespective of the otherโs behavior, I am caring and kind to them.
โฅ When someone is nice to you, are you extra-nice to them? And if someone is not nice to you, do you get back in a big way? Do you catch yourself becoming an imitation of the people you meet, as you reflect their mannerisms? People behave with us differently on different days, depending on their mood, nature, circumstance, perspective or environment. They may argue, betray, scold or ignore me. There is always a chance of them being rude or disrespectful.
โฅ ๐ช๐ฒ ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ฝ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐: To reflect their behaviour and deplete our virtues, To absorb their behaviour and go into pain, and To transform their energy by radiating our inherent goodness. If we keep copying peopleโs behaviors, we lose our own identity and virtues. ๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ข๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐, ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ข๐ซ ๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ข๐ซ ๐ค๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ข๐ซ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ฒ. We need not respond the same way as they behave. We have the power to be nice to everyone, including with those who are not right to us. Understand people and donโt hurt them back. Let them be their way, you be yours. Let your behaviour be a reflection of your personality. Donโt copy their behaviors and donโt reflect their personality. Using my qualities consistently keeps me happy, contented and successful and earns blessings from other people.
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