2025-02-28

Handling Rejection From Loved Ones

When people are critical of us, do not meet our expectations, or insult us, we feel rejected by them. This makes us feel inferior and unwanted. We may love someone, and our lives might revolve around that person. But if they don't treat us the same way, we feel that they rejected us.

1● Do you sometimes think – "𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘫𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘦… 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘥𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘮𝘦 … 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦… 𝘯𝘰 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘦". People will have their own opinions about you. Also, the way someone perceives you will vary with time, although you remain the same.

2● Just because people are not right to you, do not relate it to rejection. Perhaps their intentions were perfect but their behavior was not perfect. Go beyond behaviors to understand the reason - maybe they were in a bad mood or in the middle of a negative situation. Support them and send them your good wishes and spiritual love.

3● Enjoy being with people and creating beautiful bonds with them. But do not allow your happiness to be dependent on anyone. Even if someone rejects you, continue to be yourself – take care of them to the best of your capacity, without expectations. Let your pure vibrations influence them.

4● What people think about you is not important. What you think about yourself means everything. Love and accept yourself unconditionally. Reflect within yourself daily to build the self-esteem of your core values and make yourself stronger to give unconditionally.

Message for Today

"True happiness lies in sharing it with others"

Thought:

When we think about sharing, we sometimes wonder if it really benefits us. Often, people believe that when we share, we become poorer as a result. When we think that the only person we can share with will benefit, we find it difficult to share our time and resources.

Process:

When we share our inner goodness, we benefit. Every time we act on the basis of goodness, we not only experience goodness in return from others, but we also experience that quality within ourselves. When we share our material resources, our own experience is more important than the benefit. The experience of sharing encourages others to share with us.