The Key To Relationships – Unconditional Love (Part 6)
This is the last part of this message on how to live your relationships in the right manner and in this last part, we explain the method of becoming a good relationship manager. In other words, how do we manage our relationships in a manner that the other person in all our relationships is always full of love and blessings for us in his or her heart? Also, we continue to experience that love from them in the form of good wishes that reach us in a way so as to fill us on a spiritual level.
➤𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 is the way of living relationships spiritually. Spirituality teaches us that each and every human being in this world is a soul whose original qualities are peace, love, and happiness. Also, each one is originally full of these qualities when they come down to play their roles in the physical world from the soul world up above. This initial stage of ours is called the soul-conscious stage, in which the soul’s qualities are like a fragrant flower.
➤Also, everyone experiences these 𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 from us, in all relationships. It’s when we start coming under the influence of negativity of different forms that the soul starts losing its qualities and fragrance and it starts looking outwards in need of these qualities. This is when the balance in relationships was spoiled and we started becoming dependent on others for our love and joy. It is like the famous story of the musk deer, who did not realize that the scent it was searching for was from its own navel.
➤In the same manner as the musk deer, we lose the connection with our inner selves and the method of accessing peace, love, and joy by becoming 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬. We started looking for it from our mother, our father, our child, our brother or sister, our life partner, our friend, etc. The right way of restoring the balance is completing the triangle of spirituality, by including God as the one whom I absorb peace, love, and joy from. I also become soul-conscious and access these qualities inside myself and increase them. And then I share all these qualities with others, instead of expecting them to give me those qualities of peace, love, and joy.
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Message for Today
"True happiness lies within us"
Thoughts to ponder:
In negative situations, we try to find happiness outside of ourselves, leaving our inner happiness behind. We try to get temporary happiness to distract our mind from the problem, or we try to escape from the situation. Neither of these attempts helps us find a solution to the problem.
Process:
To know true happiness, I must find what nourishes me spiritually and gives me life. Once I find the source of inner joy, it will be stable and unchanging, even in the most difficult circumstances.