Gratitude For People Who Weren’t Kind To Us
The behaviors of certain people feel nearly intolerable to us. We feel they came into our lives and created chaos with their words and behaviors. What we fail to realize is that such people bring out our potential, and help us grow and be stronger. Let us be grateful to those who weren’t right to us. Do you believe that good people give you good times, but wrong people give you good lessons? You may dislike every bit about someone who behaved wrongly with you, but do you realize how powerful you emerged, as you went through those experiences? Whether they are rude, betray us, create an obstacle to our success, lie to us, or harm us, they are instruments for changing our destiny.
➤They make us strong enough to independently deal with the issue, overcome any situation, and remain powerful. When people are not right to us, we adapt, we adjust, we adapt to new ways of thinking, of not being dependent on their behaviour. We lower our ego, enhance our goodness, and take care of keeping our karmas clean. By becoming powerful, we also change our past belief that our emotions are dependent on people. Practice being grateful, kind, and peaceful to such people. Remind yourself every day – I am a wise being. I am grateful for everyone in my life, no matter how they treat me. I treat them well. I thank the people who were not right to me, for giving me the strength to be who I am today – powerful and humble.
➤𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲: "𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐚 𝐏𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥'. Thank everyone who has been a part of your life journey, for their role in it. At times people are not right to you, they lie, betray, ignore, or abuse you. It’s their doing, their choice. You take care of yourself, you recognize your worth, and you remain in self-respect. You should be grateful to them for bringing out the best in you. Their behaviour gives you the opportunity to increase your tolerance, your calmness, respect, your stability. Develop compassion for yourself and them.
➤𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠, they are in pain themselves, and behaving that way because of that. They are playing their role, as per our past karmic accounts. Now they allow you to settle your past karma with them. Even if you feel uncomfortable momentarily, realize they came to give you the lessons and knowledge that you had to learn. Your gratitude influences them, and heals them. You come out of it stronger, you let go of the emotions, move on, become a better you, giving gratitude to everyone.
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Message for Today
"True control is Self-control"
Thoughts to ponder:
Generally, we expect external circumstances to be perfect. We want everything to be perfect according to what we think is right and wrong. When that doesn't happen, we tend to get restless. We are unable to control our mind. This can make a negative situation worse. And it becomes difficult to find a solution to the problem.
Process:
When I respect myself and realize my power, I am able to control my mind. I rule myself like a king rules a kingdom. This helps me to control external circumstances. It makes me see the reason behind everything that happens. Therefore, I do not get depressed.