Experiencing High Self-Esteem Constantly

In any relationship whether personal or even professional, initially it is a totally positive projection. There is a person who projects on to you all that is positive: you are marvelous, you are unique, you are dependable, you are valuable. That positive projection generates a positive state, of bliss, of wellbeing, whereby you are flying. You feel loved, cared for, needed and valued.

➤That positive projection lasts for a time until, with the dependencies and expectations, the negative projection begins. You should have called me, you should have told me, you should have arrived at this time, you should be more like this, you should be less like that, you should have done this or that.

➤𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐝𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐥𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫. The other has started interfering in your personal space and the harmony that was there previously is lost. One needs to learn to have a positive vision of oneself. You are marvelous, you are unique; don’t depend on them telling you so. This does not mean you need to feed your ego, but that you need to make the most positive emerge from within you.

➤𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐬𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝. On feeling good in an independent way, you will be able to share with others peace, love and positivism. You won’t be in the state of a victim but will be true rulers and controllers of your own life with high self-esteem constantly.