Tolerate With Pleasure, Not With Pressure
We are living in a world of constant change and increasing stress and dealing with many people with different types of personalities who are facing different types of challenges in their lives. In such a world itโs commonly seen that people get angry and easily upset with us at times. How do we deal with such people easily and tolerate them without getting pressurized? Letโs look at 5 steps โ
1 โ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ช๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฆ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ข๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฆ๐ผ๐๐น โ The moment someone criticizes us, insults us, or taunts us, emerge your soul-conscious vision for them and see them as beautiful souls with beautiful original qualities and remind yourself that their anger and ego a temporary form of impurity, that was not a part of their original, pure nature.
2 โ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐๐ซ ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐จ ๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ซ ๐๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ ๐๐จ๐จ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ก โ The moment you face someoneโs negative behaviour, tell yourself that you have surrendered all your relationships to God, and you donโt need to think about the person or situation too much. Just be connected to God experience His love and power and feel the right perception of the person and situation from Him.
3 โ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ ๐ฃ๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐ ๐ข๐ณ ๐ช๐ถ๐๐ฑ๐ผ๐บ & ๐๐
๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ โ There are various points of positive self-respect in Godโs wisdom, which we read or listen to. Remember any one point and donโt repeat the negative words or actions of the other person in your mind.
4 โ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ & ๐๐จ-๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง โ The best way to win the love, support, and cooperation of the other person is to give the same to them through your thoughts, words, and actions. Do this for some time and the other person will transform completely from negative to positive.
5 โ ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐ง๐ผ ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ป ๐ ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป โ For a few minutes every day, visualize the other soul with yourself and God in meditation and radiate vibrations of goodness and positivity which you take from God to them. This will change their consciousness bring them closer to you and help them finish their negative perception of you.
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"Having Good Wishes For All"
When I understand the importance of having good wishes for all, I am able to receive good wishes from others too. I am able to be free from the influence of the negativity of the situations and people. So I constantly experience inner happiness and contentment, even if I don't get something outwardly.
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