5 Ways Of Being Assertive In Relationships
1 โ ๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฃ๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ณ๐๐น๐น๐ ๐๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ณ๐๐น๐น๐ โ Often in different life situations we become angry when others do not agree with us and do not respect our opinion. We feel this is wrong and feel the urge to do something about that. We can share our opinion and also explain why that is beneficial in the situation, but without having any ego and with a lot of peace and respect.
2 โ ๐๐๐ค๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซโ๐ฌ ๐
๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ โ Spirituality teaches us that being aggressive is against the goodness of human relationships and being assertive is not wrong if used in a correct way without giving pain to the other person and without dominating the other personโs feelings. So, assertiveness can be used wherever required and situations can be taken to their destination of success.
3 โ ๐ง๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ผ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฉ๐ถ๐ฒ๐, ๐๐ผ ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฑ๐ด๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น โ A very important spiritual dimension of relationships is to think before you speak because words once spoken do not come back and also once the other person has heard them they do not forget them. So being assertive is good but we shouldnโt misuse the power and make it a part of conversations in a positive way.
4 โ ๐๐๐ค๐ ๐๐จ๐โ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ซ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ โ Remember that assertiveness should be filled with Godโs love and goodness. Only then it is effective. Godโs love is important because it also fills us with spiritual love for the other soul and also makes us caring which is very important while being assertive. Also, the love in our heart ensures we are not blunt while being assertive but are very soft.
5 โ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐ง๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ข๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐ข๐ฝ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐จ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐บ โ In relationships, it is very important to listen and deeply realize what the other person is trying to say. Otherwise, assertiveness can be very wrongly used and affect relationships negatively. The more we listen to the other personโs heartโs voice, the more we will be able to satisfy them with our assertiveness and mutual understanding.
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