One of the most common topics from the queries we receive is "love" and in that, people mostly struggle in understanding what love is, and how to deal with the feeling.
Title: "๐๐๐๐ค๐๐ฃ๐๐จ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ง๐ช๐ ๐๐ค๐ซ๐"
(๐ฐ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ท๐ฟ-๐ข๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ & ๐ฑ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ป๐๐๐)
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ง๐ช๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต & ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐บ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ง๐ช๐ต ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐จ๐ถ๐ช๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ. ๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐.
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๐ดFirstly, i think it would be useful to mention the original query message we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group:
๐๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐ฒ: ๐๐ฐ ๐ ๐ข๐ฎ 19 ๐บ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ. ๐๐ฆ๐ค๐ข๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ธ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ข๐ต๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐บ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ด ๐ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ฉ ๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ 3 ๐บ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ๐ด... ๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ด๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต?? ๐ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ด๐ข๐ฅ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ...๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ
Clearly you are troubling yourself with such unnecessary thoughts... At this age, your attention should be on your ๐๐๐ฎ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฌ, and the ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐. While, the right question is not whether the other person is in love with you, but "๐๐ฎ ๐ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ฆ๐ด๐ต ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ?"
โค๐ง๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐'๐ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐บโค
While there are many good qualities and skills in yound people today, certainly most of the young people do not understand "true love" as they are exposed to school and college life where the ๐๐ญ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ is such. On the top the ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฌ that certainly have nothing to do with pure & genuine feeling of "love" and everything to do with "lust" (bodily attraction)
๐๐ฑ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐น๐น
If you simple remove yourself from the atmosphere of your school/college, stop attending social media (or just see the positive things), and only watch/read good films and literature, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ก๐๐ง๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ not only in your-self, but also in your life. TRY THIS for even a week and see how greatly it can benefit you.
๐Now... here is the most accurate definition what a true love must be like:
"๐๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ก, ๐๐ฃ๐๐ก๐๐จ๐จ & ๐๐ง๐๐" ๐ These are the three qualities of the love that is genuine and of the highest nature.
โ ๐๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ก๐๐
Not dependant on the physical body (which is perishable) & does not change with time, moments & phases of life. Because love has nothing to do with outside appearance or worldly parameters.
โ ๐๐ก๐๐๐๐ฆ๐ฆ
Not limited to any degree, for any reason, and to any person... Love is endless stream of light that flows from your soul to every being and every thing that exist.
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It must not bind you to anything. Love is "freedom" itself. If there is jealousy & posessiveness, it is anything but love. True love sets you FREE to experience, enjoy, and enhance your-self.
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๐You have heard what "true love" is like & feels like... Now, if you feel that your life has brought you such a person, then ๐ข๐ง๐ฏ๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐, ๐๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ญ & ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฅ... ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐๐ฌ๐๐ซ๐ฏ๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐๐ฌ... And if life has not yet brought you to someone your heart feels close... then have "patience" and keep "clarity" in your thoughts. ๐๐จ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ก๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ข๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ง๐๐ซ ๐๐จ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ซ๐๐ฌ. That will only bring you regret. Marriage should never be thought of unless you find that the love is ๐๐๐๐ and ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐.
๐ณ๐พ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ค๐ to unfold you the best of options and most wonderful of the gifts.
๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ฆ:
"It is human nature to desire what is lacking... but when it is obtained, the desire is extinguished...you shall no longer feel the same joy you had when you first obtained that desire."
Because dear soul... "๐ ๐ค๐ฎ ๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ค๐๐๐จ๐จ ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐๐ & ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฉ๐จ ๐๐ค๐๐ก"
โญ๐๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐ญ: "๐๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฎ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ด๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฅ. ๐๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฎ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ท๐ข๐ฏ๐ช๐ด๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฅ"
So ENJOY every moment of life... being grateful for WHAT I HAVE rather than going for things you do not. Make use of all your resources & see forward to life.
๐ฑWe suggest the 2 following posts for extra guidance:
1. ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ป๐ท๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ? ๐ https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/how-to-enjoy-life
2. ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ? ๐ https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/how-to-live
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