Title: "๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ค๐ซ๐, ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ค๐ข๐ ๐ผ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐จ, ๐๐๐๐ก ๐๐ช๐ง๐ฉ"
Subtitle: ๐ป๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐, ๐ต๐๐๐ ๐ข๐๐๐-๐๐๐๐.
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด (๐ง๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐บ/๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด). ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhanย WhatsApp group in August 2024.
Original Query:
How should i live without the love of my husband? We have kids and since 20 years i am living like this and suffering emotionally and physically. Please guide.
Response
We are going to address your message in brief words, and then suggest you some useful links that can help/guide you ahead.
"๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ, ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ช๐ด ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ"
How can you live without something, that is always ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง you. Yes, you may forget that you already have it. And so will you search it outside and from others.
โญ"Self Love" is not just a concept for self-pampering, but a REAL moment which, when experienced, can transform your life forever.
๐FIRST:
"Self-Love & Detachment"
Let go of the attachments that makes you demand ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ & ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐๐ข๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ. Instead, derive JOY from ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง & what you are doing for yourself & for others. YOU know what you are doing, and WHY you are doing it. Remember: "Healing begins with self-love"
โGet guidance on ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐๐๐ฟ๐ through this post๐ https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/overcome-emotional-hurt
and
โโโโโโโโโโโ
๐ฑSECOND:
"๐ฟ๐ค ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐ก๐ก๐จ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐๐ค๐ฎ. ๐ฟ๐ค ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐ก๐ฎ ๐๐ฃ๐๐ค๐ฎ"
This is very important. When you enjoy your work, enjoy your choices in life--the life is enhanced! Just by ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐, will you derive great joy. Practise and find out.
โTo learn this way of living, please follow our post ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ป๐ท๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ (recommended to all)
and
Must Read: ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ ๐ฆ๐๐ฟ๐๐ด๐ด๐น๐ฒ
โโโโโโโโโโโ
โ๏ธTHIRD:
"๐๐ฉ๐ค๐ฅ ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐"
On my recent response, this point is explained beautifully. "๐๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ถ๐ง๐ง๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ด ๐ด๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ค๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต๐ด๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต, ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ต ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ"
๐Outside events happens for a moment...and they ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ. But what you keep of it, by thinking about it again and again, ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐๐๐ซ๐ญ....and your heart thus feel heavy.
โVisit our forum post ๐ฆ๐๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ข๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด & ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ง๐ต๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต๐๐ to get detailed guidance on this subject.
๐ปHave a moment for your-self, every day. Sit in quiet and go within.... ๐ฅ๐๐๐ซ๐ง ๐ฆ๐๐๐ข๐ญ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง >>> In this ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ญ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ & ๐ฃ๐จ๐ฒ--now send such POSITIVE vibrations to everyone (to your husband, family, relatives, the world itself)
๐This is called ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฎ๐๐ต (๐ฌ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ). LEARN this method step-wise through our SAKASH post๐ https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/sakash-meaning-purpose-method
Doing this rightly can change your life for good.
โ๏ธThis is all from us. You are given the advise. Now please help yourself by following this advise & visit ALL given links.
โโโโโโโโโโโ
๐ต๐๐๐๐๐พ๐๐๐...
On Godly Service,
๐ธ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐พ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ด๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ (SBSI)
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