At some point in life, you will discover that there comes two choices to you, and both of them seems to be right. Whether to preserve/protect self-respect and move away from the situation, OR to tolerate and move into in order to resolve the matter. This is an important question and a very common situation we all would have faced at some point in this life. So here is our ๐ค๐ก๐๐ฃ๐๐ฅ๐ฆ๐๐ ๐๐๐ค๐๐๐๐ฅ and ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐๐๐๐ for you.
Title: "๐๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง๐๐๐ก๐, ๐๐ง๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฉ๐ฎ"
(๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐-๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ & ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐)
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ช๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐ข๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
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๐The broader question is: "๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ช ๐ค๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ต๐ธ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ช๐ด ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ฎ๐ฆ V/S ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฆ๐ณ๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง-๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต"
๐๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ฐ๐๐ซ ๐ข๐ฌ: "Always choose dignity & self-respect. As in respecting your-self, you also contribute positively in lives of everyone around you"
๐ณ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ: By protecting your self-respect, you are harming no one... ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ is a fundamental right of every human being. You are ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐๐ & ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ for who you are.
โถ๐จ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ: By getting away from a situation, not only you protect your-self, but also protect the other person from harming you, doing wrong to you.
Now...your situation here is very commonly seen in the world, and especially in India. You have chosen to part from your husband with whom you had clashes. You are certainly not supposed to tolerate physical violence. But the answer to any violence, is แญEแฉแE, แชOแฏE & แญแฉTIEแแE. (Keep Peace in your mind, Love in your hear, and Patience in all your doings)
Protecting Dignity
Surely you should ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ-๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ from being harmed by any means... But do not harm others for this... Simply ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง (go away). Then come to PEACE... and send the vibrations of PEACE to all... And then come back... And that is exactly what you have done... So we say you "well done" for that wise decision.
๐ปTo love someone, is to do what is good for them, isn't it? And in the same light, to love the self, is ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐๐ญ & ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐'๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.
๐We would like to teach you something here, if you allow >>
"๐๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ญ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ถ๐ด๐ฃ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ... ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ฑ๐ข๐ด๐ต ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ ๐๐ข๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ค ๐ข๐ค๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ต๐ธ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ธ๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐จ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ด๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด"
โถ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฟ: "Every soul is in the image of God. We all are originally ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐, ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅ, ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅ, ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ"
No one does something bad intentionally. It is simply that they are ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐ of what is truly right and wrong (at that moment). And when you know this, you are able to ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ naturally.
๐ ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ช๐ถ๐๐ฑ๐ผ๐บ
We have explained this many many times on this Samadhan group. This life is a planned DRAMA for us ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ซ๐ง & ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ who we are... We come here only for that...
๐ฟSo whatever happens in your life, is not by chance... But ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ง๐๐ in order to bring you closer to your final purpose of life. In simple words, "๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฎ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฃ๐จ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐ ๐๐ค๐ค๐ ๐พ๐๐ช๐จ๐"
๐ท๐๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ, you have got an ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ right now to become FREE from all attachments, to discover your self-potential, and find your purpose of life.
๐You see, ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ-๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ญ... Understand this once again and clearly. When you left your husband, you must also stay away from his ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ & ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐... And ask the questions to your self, rather than pointing outside... ๐๐ช๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ด๐ธ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด.
Inner Work
๐This is what we call "๐ข๐ง๐ง๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค" and this is what you need to do right now, and in a few weeks or months when you feel that you are ready ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ with your then husband, then go ahead and give him another chance. Remember: By giving him a chance, you are giving your-self a chance too.
๐Therefore, as we said and explained, doing the "inner work" is your aim right now. Life has given you this opportunity to become FREE from all attachments & find your-self within.
๐ฑ๐๐๐ค๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ. Bless everyone who caused this to happen. Bless your husband for his role in your life... And become a blessing to him by showing him also, the ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐ต ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐ฑ.
โ๏ธThis is God's answer for you, my opinion. Think on this, and do as you choose.
๐Finally, we highly suggest you to follow our program Awakening with Brahma Kumaris (by BK sister Shivani) and particularly watch the series on "Healing Relationships" and "Soul-Connections". They will guide you ahead.
๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ (Hindi) ๐ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt551HqVGwRL1hqVi9TQD-03Hp
๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ-๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ (English) ๐ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL457FB082F908E197
๐๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ (๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ) ๐ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8BCGs3ul_7R1j_LBAa7oaJMBEWVGr_55
Summary
Assure your husband that you will come back in a few weeks or months... During this time, you need to do the "inner work" (as we explained) and also inspire your husband to follow spirituality through our "Awakening" program... Do this for him too... His nature will improve as well.
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๐ต๐๐๐๐๐พ๐๐๐...
Oแ แOแชแชY SแดแแฏIแแด,
๐ธ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐พ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ด๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ (SBSI)
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