It is always a struggle to make friends and even to merely speak and begin a conversation for someone who is shy, introvert, or underconfident about your abilities or appearance.
This is also based on "𝕔𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 & 𝕞𝕒𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕒𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕡𝕤" in general... to develop the skill to create good relationships with those you meet.
Here are our 10 STEPS/TIPS to help you connect with others and build meaningful friendships:
1. Self-awareness
Understand and accept your shyness. Introversion is a virtue. It is a part of who you are, and that's okay. Self-acceptance is the first step.
2. Start with small steps
Don't rush into trying to make a lot of friends all at once. Begin by trying to connect with just one or two people. Quality of friendship is more important than quantity of friends.
3. Shared interests
Join clubs, groups, or activities that align with your interests. You might meet like-minded people at such places.
4. Online communities
Online forums, social media, and interest-specific websites can be a great way to meet people. Make right use of the internet.
5. Listen actively
When you engage in conversations, focus on being a good listener. People appreciate those who genuinely listen and show interest in what they have to say.
6. Practice small talk
Start with simple, light conversations with people you encounter in everyday life, such as coworkers, classmates, or neighbors. Ask about their day or share a compliment.
7. Take the first step
Sometimes, you'll need to make the first move. Say "hello," introduce yourself, ask a good question, and express your interest in getting to know someone better.
8. Find common ground
Look for common interests, experiences, or goals. Shared experiences can form a strong basis for friendships.
9. Be Kind & Wise
What you speak and do does define you as a person, and the kind of friends you would attract. Be kind and forgiving to everyone. Be patient with difficult people & situations. Be wise with what you speak and do.
10. Practice self-confidence
Work on improving your self-confidence through self-affirmation, positive self-talk, and personal development. The more confident you feel, the easier it will be to approach and connect with others.
Remember: Building friendships is a gradual process, and it's about finding people who appreciate you for who you are.
🌻It is indeed a virtue or a nature or say an emotional skill to make friends or relationship with new people. This nature is developed in early childhood and maintained during the school age where this skill of "speaking" with your classmates and "making friends" is developed.
🌼Some are shy or introvert by nature, may it be for a personal reason or otherwise. And that is all good. But "being shy" is no wrong. It only means you are introverted >> and the introverted are generally more conscious, understanding, and kind.
✱Now coming to developing the skill to speak & making friends >> we suggest you to watch these VIDEOS 👉
1. HOW to make Friends? ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I9hJ_Rux9y0
2. HOW to be more likeable in public ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTgqcJ6_-KY
3. How to make friends when you are socially Awkward? ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MP5CkokeygQ
4. How to be more likeable ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grB2adrX__g
"All the Best"
On Godly Service,
𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴
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