This post (answer) is ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฅ to everyone. Because hard times and challenges comes in everyone's life in one way or another. So having this valuable spiritual insight on WHY they come and HOW to overcome the challenges can help you.
๐ฆ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ป: ๐๐ฉ๐ช๐ด, ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ, ๐ช๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ข๐ธ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ช ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ธ๐ณ๐ช๐ต๐ฆ ๐ต๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ. ๐๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ต๐ฉ. ๐๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ง ๐ช๐ต ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ.
๐ดWith this response, i wanted to send this message, not only to the person who asked this question in Oct 2022, but to everyone reading this.
๐ฟWe all get into situations in life, where we find our set of rules & values falls apart and doesn't work... You may call it "hard times" or rather "challenging times" but indeed they are our most precious gifts from God. Confuse not... As you read this message, this will get clear.
๐นWith gyan (๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐) you could easily "forgive" others for their doings. And of that, you are proud. But the real challenge was to learn to live with them, isn't it? The real purpose of the stuggles of life, is to get out of them more evolved, more powerful than you ever was!
Tip: Watch this motivational video (Hindi) by Sandeep Maheshwari to learn about "๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ง๐ข๐ค๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฆ๐ด".
๐ฟYou see now... that exactly is the purpose of our struggles. The "hard times" gives us an ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข to LEARN and REVISE our way of living and thus to ๐๐-๐๐๐๐๐๐ our values, our life itself. In other words, challenges may give us temporary troubles and discomfort, but to the SOUL it gives a precious opportunity to grow!
โฅ So in this case, a person was struggling to maintain good relationship with their spouse. And so they ask us to guide them on what should be done: ๐๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ต๐ณ๐บ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ข๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฉ๐ช๐ฑ; ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ? The below is our insight on this matter:
๐ณI hope the first part is clear to you... So now, the question of whether you should stay around a person or people, who troubles you >> is a question of YOUR personal choice. That is: If you find yourself having the inner powers of "tolerance" and "power to adjust" and you wish to exercise these inner powers (and thereby increase/strengthen these powers) then by all means sustain the relationship with love and patience. And if you find and feel that actually "separation" can better heal the relationship, and you wish not to stay in the picture, then do separation.
โถ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐ง: The 8 powers of Soul
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Tip: Attend this class (YT video) by sister Shivani to learn about this.
On Material Success
As you understood already, material success can provide us comforts of live and can give us better things (house, car, resources, etc) that only makes our life more comfortable. But they are never the source of joy. And not to forget that all hard work we do, is to find that joy, that happiness, isn't it?
โถWe suggest you watch these 2 videos:
What is Purpose of life? (Sadhguru)
How to Balance: Spiritual & Material (Sadhguru)
โญThe source of joy is spiritual. True joy is within... The ๐ค๐ ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐๐ is YOU the soul. Purity, Peace, Love & Joy are our original & eternal virtues! > ๐๐๐๐ซ๐ง: Original Virtues of Soul
๐บThe entire point of ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ is that "YOU NEED NOTHING" as you have all that within you, what you seek outside. Yes that does not mean we do no karma (act)... but it means, we do not search for happiness in the outside world & in material possessions. By all means, buy everything you want, but have no attachment to them. That is to say: "๐๐ฐ๐ด๐ด๐ฆ๐ด๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ๐ต๐ฉ๐ญ๐บ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ค๐ฆ๐ด, ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ด๐ฆ๐ด๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐บ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฎ"
๐ป Spirituality is so very simple and in the words of the Bhagavad Geeta: "๐๐ฃ๐๐ค๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฎ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐. ๐ผ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐"
If you like to read spirituality, we recommend you Bhagvad Gita by Eknath Easwaranโ
โค Spirituality only guides a soul to ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ต๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง, ๐ฏ๐ถ๐ณ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง... ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐ณ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ... This is it, the essence of all religions, scriptures and prayers to God. To expand your understanding on this, i highly recommend listening to this ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ "๐๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐ผ๐ฑ" โค https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/conversations-with-god-book-1-audiobook-part-1 (SoundCloudโ) and on this YouTube playlist โค https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLs-ebcevZI7lM2ndmNPywZtLeFKUhZDQbโ
or you can even buy a copy of this 1994 world bestseller book CWG on Amazonโ
Bhakti (devotion) and Gyan (knowledge)
Know that "bhakti" or "worship" although it does make us feel peace & protection, and be faithful to God, but indeed it does not take us any closer to God than we are now. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ (gyan) is the only way to God realisation, for it is the only way to "๐๐๐๐-๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐" and knowing one's true self, one approaches to the universal truth, which GOD is.
โจ"LOVE GOD... be GOD LOVING"โจ
Do not fear him for God is Love itself and God is our eternal spiritual father. He will never bring us sorrow, but raise us above it. He comes to give us this knowledge, understanding and remembering Shiv baba alone refines the soul's intellect (buddhi). And when our intellect is refined and pure, we take better decisions/choices, and so our life is elevated. This is the ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ช๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ค๐ฆ๐ด๐ด of how God comes and uplifts and liberates us children.
Tip: Watch this ๐๐ง๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐๐๐จ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฆ: Lost and Found (English) to know our own story! It is also available with Hindi voice. You can watch Hindi version.
He is ready, always ready to help us. Only make a step in the direction you want to move.
โถVideo: ๐ข๐ธ๐พ๐ต & ๐๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ต๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ๐ผ ๐ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-2sCJNVbpQ (know how God speaks to us using "feelings")
๐ธYou see... All religions, without exception, in one way or another, preaches to fear god and to fear doing any disrespect of what is written in scriptures, as if God himself wrote it! But human beings hardly use common sense and intuition. This blind worship (blindfaith) in fact takes you away from God and his truest knowledge. Because God can be KNOWN, not touched. Knowing comes from questioning ... and the job of religions is to ban (dismiss) the questions.
โถVideo 2: ๐ก๐ฎ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ธ๐ท๐ผ & ๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ช๐ผ ๐ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9vxUEG4vlE
๐ทThere you go... you are now a step closer to God...โ๏ธThis is what you needed to know first.
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