Navigating relationships with in-laws can be one of life’s most delicate balancing acts—a dance of love, boundaries, and mutual respect that often tests the 'resilience' of even the strongly-bonded families. Whether strained by cultural differences, unmet expectations, or past misunderstandings—these connections carry the weight of differences, and also the potential for a profound connection and alliance.
Healing these karmic bonds requires love, understanding, and patience—it also calls for empathy, honest communication, and a willingness totake the opportunity to solve misunderstanding, forgive the past mistakes, and heal the relationship. This journey begins not with perfection, but with the courage to ask: How can we honor our differences while nurturing connection?
✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"
The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2025. So please read the following in the same context.
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Query: My daughter is in the verge of divorce. She has tried her best to get support from her husband in a conflicting situation with her in-laws...who are misconducting with her, creating arguments out of nowhere, and not giving her the space and dignity that she deserves. My son-in-law (her husband) is good with her and their understand each other well. But when it comes to his family (our in-laws) he does not listen to my daughter's side and asks her to adjust. She is trying her best. What should i do, or she could do to heal this situation with our in-laws?
The Response
Thank you for putting the situation so clearly. We can see the picture, and here is some clarity, followed by our guidance:
𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 & 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭
𝗢𝗡𝗘: The relationship between the husband & wife (your daughter) is positive. They do not have conflicts of their own (but arises only due to interference of the in-laws)
𝗧𝗪𝗢: It is thus clear---that there is a "karmic exchange" (account) between your daughter and her in-laws, due to which the misunderstandings and conflict happens. This needs to be resolved in the simplest way.
𝗧𝗛𝗥𝗘𝗘: You have mentioned about "self confidence" and "focus" on her work. This is an important aspect to which we have written guidance available, posted on our FORUM.
Guidance
ONE
Since the husband-wife relationship is going well and they have no conflicts on their own, and we are deriving here that they both are financially welldoing... i suggest the simplest way to avoid conflict is living separately... But we do understand the complications of this step in the Indian society, where male children are expected to stay with parents after the marriage.... and hence it leaves us ONE way >> healing the karmic relationship with in-laws >>which is possible with right wisdom, willingness, inner-work & patience.
☘️Please visit the following 3 posts to learn how to 'settle' any karmic account peacefully & completely.
➤How to Tolerate, Heal, Face & Forgive
➤How to Settle a Karmic account?
➤Settle Karma with Love & Patience
TWO
We highly advise your daughter to start doing Forgiveness Meditation for herself & her in-laws... this is sending thoughts of forgiveness & resolving the karmic bond at the thought level.
THIS WILL WORK... and you will see its POSITIVE result within a few weeks
➤Please accurately follow our detailed post: Forgiveness Meditation (step by step guide)
THREE
➤Since you mentioned about your daughter's lost of self-confidence & FOCUS, here is our detailed guidance on Improving Self Confidence (wisdom, insight, practical suggestions & helpful videos)
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Please read & follow our recent post on Improving Concentration/Focus (introduction, insights, practical steps & helpful videos)
Conclusion
So I have done my part... Now you need to send this message to your daughter and have her read & follow ALL the 6 posts we have provided above☝️
🪻All 6 posts are selected, as it reflects your exact situation... Your daughter can join this group & "stay in connection" so she can also find a place to open her heart & get help/guidance whenever she needs.
🍎We also have another group called Samadhan Open which stays OPEN for all members 24x7. Please read its 'group description' after joining, to learn 'how' the group works.
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𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨
Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ,
𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)
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