Family problems (especially dealing with in-laws) can feel challenging and overwhelming—whether it’s arguments, misunderstandings, or difference in lifestyle. But healing is possible, even if it takes time and effort. Living around difficult people or people with a different way of thinking is a 'challenging' process, but if you take the challenge, you will come out stronger and wiser.
This post shares simple insights & practical steps (WHAT TO DO) to help rebuild trust, talk openly, heal karmic accounts, and care for each other’s feelings. No matter how broken things seem, small acts of kindness and patience can start mending what’s been hurt—and bring your family closer again.
★ Healing a in-Laws Family Situation ★
The situation seems to be fragile... and without knowing the full picture, we wont be guiding you on WHAT needs to be done... But there are 2 things that you should do:
ONE
If you wish the best for him, you must get him out from that toxic atmosphere, to which he is emotionally attached (due to his mother's condition)... What you should 'politely' and explain is: Your staying there is not a help... You can help her to heal, when you yourself are healed & empowered in every way
🌷The good part here is that you do understand: That his anger is NOT on you, but on the situation... He needs help, no less than his mother ... So see him with "mercy" and "compassion"... and you shall not feel bad about anything they say or do.
🪷Only when you act with love (compassion) and patience will you be able to HEAL him, pull him out of this situation. See yourself as a god-sent ANGEL who is given this task... Yet he is no less divine than you, but has 'forgotten' of his divinity. If you are in love, then love asks of you to help heal him.
🪴But... there is a big BUT here... this should not be at the cost of your 'dignity' and 'peace of mind' >> you owe yourself to be happy and experience the best of life has to offer... Do not indulge yourself in what you do not oblige to! Do not be attached to people or situation... and only then can you help someone be detached from the web of their creation.
WHAT TO DO?
Invite him to sit at a peaceful place... outside and away from his home... and talk to him about this (as we have explained above)... make him understand & realise "how his mental health is declining because of all this"... and that he does not have to be physically present here in order to take care.
🌟Now we introduce you to what is called SAKASH meditation, through which you can send positive, powerful vibrations (thoughts) with an intention to HEAL them physically & emotionally.
👉Please refer to our post: Sakash for 'healing' body & soul (all information, guidance & helpful links are provided on this post)
————————————
TWO
Then we recommend you and him to watch our TV program Awakening with Brahma Kumaris together... episodes on "self-management" and "healer within"
👉Here is full playlist of all episodes of healer within >> https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt551EU5-eIR0UiqPYMWZbhwh9
✶SECOND >>
First you visit your nearby RajYog centre... take the 7 days course and begin RajYog practise... and as you feel the 'good change' within yourself, then inspire your fiance to visit the centre... (while you both watch those 'Awakening' episodes) >> also suggest him to take the COURSE.
Use our centre locator to find your nearby centres >> https://www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/ (for India) and for international centre locator
☝️These are the TWO things you need to do for now... Remember: "Love is a great healer & transformer" >> Even when he would be troubled by the atmosphere, the moments he experience in your company would fill him with 'love' and 'power' >> your EVERY WORD should "empower" him (not dis-empower) >> seeing your constant effort of "trying to help" , he will surely begin to follow... only when you do this 'selflessly' and with great 'love' & 'patience'.
————————————
𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨
Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ,
𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)