Raising teenagers as they move toward selecting a career path can be both exciting and challengingโespecially as they start exploring their unique interests, talents, and ambitions. Offering guidance requires a 'balance' between helping them identify genuine passions and allowing them the autonomy (freedom) to experiment and learn through trial and error. Parents can support this journey by encouraging open, judgment-free discussions about various professions, connecting them with resources and mentors, and helping them develop key soft skills like communication, critical thinking, and adaptability.
Ultimately, by providing encouragement, structure, and the freedom to explore, parents can foster a supportive environment that empowers teenagers to confidently shape their future careers. Remember: Adolescents crave independence, yet still need guidance, emotional support, and a direction. Striking the right balance involves open communication, active listening, self-discipline, a loving atmosphere at home, and wisdom imparted by parents.
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"๐๐ช๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ผ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ช๐ง๐จ๐ช๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐๐ง"
Subtitle: ๐ณ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ -๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ข ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐.
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โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด (๐ง๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐บ/๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด). ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ & ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ๐ด๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ด. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
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The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2024.
๐ดFirstly, along with the following detailed response >> i highly recommend you to follow our beautiful guidance post titled ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐ก๐๐ง๐๐ฃ
๐ทDeriving from your messageโ๐ช๐ ๐ฆ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ฅ. You are actively engaging in your daughter's upbringing. That is very good. Having a 'positive' relationship with your children is necessary if you are to ๐๐๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐ them or ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ them to make better choices in life.
๐However, you should ASK your daughter is she at all is interested in sports anymore. Interests may keep changing with new knowledge she gain & new preferences she makes in her life.
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โ๏ธ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ is uplifting. But it is not about writing, as much as it is about "feeling" and "being". Let me explain:
๐ชดWriting affirmations is suggested for the beginners, as it helps them to ๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐๐๐๐... even listening & watching our animated videos on these affirmations will help.
๐ฟBut as you progress, writing will not be necessary... Now you can come into "being" in a matter of seconds... Now you can "feel" ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ-๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ within a moment. And as you do this, that is, as we become soul-consciousโwe naturally connect to God, the Supreme Soul... This is what we call ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ท๐ฌ๐ผ๐ด ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป
๐ฑThat is the difference. Writing "I AM A PEACEFUL SOUL" is one thing, and "being" PEACEFUL is another... ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ณ๐ต ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฆ, ๐ช๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฌ๐๐จ๐๐ค๐ข.
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Now we come to your question: "How can i guide/help her to focus back & have a connection with Shiv baba (the supreme soul)"
๐ปThe most important point is >> "๐ฝ๐๐๐ค๐ข๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐ญ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐๐๐ก๐" >> ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฟ: There is no better way to teach others, than to learn & practise it perfectly. Let her see your nature changing, you becoming ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐... Ask her to start "๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐" and see the benefits herself. ((we have provided you with all resourcesโsee the end of this message))
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๐ผNow > Instead of me answering, it would be even better when YOU can find our the answer. We will tell you how:
"๐๐ช๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง๐จ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐๐๐ก๐'๐จ ๐จ๐๐ค๐๐จ" >> see their perspective and enter their world. You will see that she has ๐๐๐๐๐๐ช, ๐ค๐๐๐ ๐ ๐, ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐๐๐ค, ๐๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ ๐ฃ๐, ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ฅ, ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐โall these are prime aspects of her life right now.
๐ชปNow if you were your daughter, HOW would you like your parent to help you connect to God? How would you be convinced on who God is... and what our relationship with god is? How would you like to be taught?
โ๏ธAsk these questions to yourself, and you will get the answers.
๐ฅ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฟ: Sometimes, the best answer to a questionโis asking a better question.
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As we observe, your daughter is still ๐จ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ง๐ญ, whilst many children turns disobedient in teenage years... So you should never do anything that spoil this relationships. ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐. Become an "example" of a good human being & your children will follow you even without you needing to teach them. Your ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ will touch them.
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Here are some useful resources for you to use:
See ALL our videos on "Parenting" by sister Shivani ๐ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw4vwEuI7Q3ov6mIbEPNbb9W5YS2WIDBj
"Parenting Tips" by Sandeep Maheshwari ๐ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcw5cK9kOCU
๐๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฆ๐ต๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ
in HINDI ๐ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnT_cOq_Ba8
in ENGLISH ๐ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgChzlOt3XI
Learn ๐ผ๐๐๐๐ง๐ข๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ (Swamaan) with our ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf
๐Read again the response message and do follow the given links one by one for a complete support.
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