We all must have struggled to find a perfect working balance between "love" and "detachment" when it comes to managing relationships. Here is a beautiful insight and wisdom on the difference between "love" and "detachment"
โ Must read: ๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ
The following was written in response to a question we received through our Samadhan group.
Divine Soulโจ
Glad to know that you have learned some wisdom through the 'Geeta' and other books. Your beautiful question is: "๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ต๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต?" and "๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ข๐ต๐ต๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด/๐ฌ๐ข๐ณ๐ฎ๐ข?"
๐One of the brightest messages of the Geeta is of เคจเคฟเคทเฅเคเคพเคฎ เคเคฐเฅเคฎเคฏเฅเค (a phrase made of 3 words: เคจเคฟเคทเฅเคเคพเคฎ - เคเคฐเฅเคฎ - เคฏเฅเค.) The Geeta wants to say that a human being's prime duty is to work, but the work (karma) should be done with a selfless motive (๐ฑ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ณ๐ฎ๐ข ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ). And if this good motive karma is backed with เคฏเฅเค (๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ถ๐๐), then it becomes of the highest order. This is เคจเคฟเคทเฅเคเคพเคฎ เคเคฐเฅเคฎ-เคฏเฅเค .
Why Not to get Attached to Karma?
๐ธ๐๐ค๐จ๐๐ฃ:
God explains: "Highest expression of Love is 'freedom' โด and this spiritual freedom comes when the soul is free from the wordly bondages"
โค ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง: The true love sets you FREE โข love knows 'supporting' and not 'stopping'! โข The moment we attach our mind to our 'karma' (its result) or to someone in particular, the control of our life shifts to somewhere else. Then the state of your mind would depend of the "result" of that karma, or the state of mind of the person with whom you are attached. Attachment of this nature, cuts the wings of soul and lessens the experience of FREEDOM โข and thereby attachment, without a fail, results to sorrow.
โ๏ธThink about this.
What is Detachment?
๐ธ๐๐ค๐จ๐๐ฃ:
The sense of 'detachment' does not restrict us from loving, but gives us the fullest experience of love โข In fact, it only widens your intellect/buddhi, your inner world. Detachment DOES NOT mean indifference (lack of concern) but it means to do the right thing without getting attached to the person (soul) or the situation. Only a detached person can get to the ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐๐ผ๐น๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป.
๐ณThe message of Geeta was such. With an example, Gita says: "Just as a tortoise, amidst a threat, finds a shelter within... a human being will find shelter in Detachment"
๐ดThis makes detachment a VIRTUE, an innate POWER of soul. Please visit and read our article on 8 powers of Soul (visit this page and read the ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐๐ฃ#๐ '๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐')
This spiritual wisdom also teach us to "๐ฟ๐๐๐ ๐ธ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐๐". Meaning: SEE THE ORIGINAL VIRTUES OF SOUL, see the TRUTH without any external/wordly glasses.
แชOแฏE & แแแชGEแฐEแT
You see both love and our sense of judgement plays independently. We love the soul for what it is: แญแแE & แชIแฏIแE... BUT, we must take the right decision at right time. This sense of judgement is independant of our love and care for that person. We should do what is RIGHT to be done for the good of the self and of others.
โค Videos for You โค
๐๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ฃ: BK sister Shivani
1. Love, yet be Detached
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fsm0TlaI2gM
2. Detachment from 'expectations'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3seEVeM9lk
3. What is art of detachment?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCCx-x3vrN4
4. What is 'unconditional' love?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jteT82DHMmk
โ๏ธPlease watch ALL 4 given videos one by one... All are helpful.
โถ๐๐ณ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐/๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ป Guide letter โค https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf (practise Affirmations/Swaman every morning and before sleep and see its benefits)
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