Brahma Kumaris Forum

Everyone have a purpose, a goal in life. We all dream and work in order to make it real. Achieving your life’s goal begins with a clear vision of what you truly desire, coupled with unwavering commitment to action. By aligning your daily habits and mindset with that vision, you steadily build the 'wisdom', 'ability' and 'resilience' needed to overcome obstacles. Effective planning, focus, and the readiness to adapt ensure that each step is purposeful, propelling you closer to your ultimate objective. Ultimately, pursuing a meaningful goal enriches our personal/spiritual growth. Title: "𝙒𝙞𝙨𝙙𝙤𝙢 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝘼𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙂𝙤𝙖𝙡 𝙞𝙣 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚" Subtitle: 𝙴𝚜𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐/𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚑𝚎𝚕𝚙 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚑 𝚝𝚘 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚐𝚘𝚊𝚕 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Nov 2024. ——————————— 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝗿𝘆: 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘦'𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘵𝘰𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘴 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘨𝘰𝘢𝘭, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘢𝘭 𝘪𝘵𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. 𝘈𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘤𝘶𝘴 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘖𝘶𝘵𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦/𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘨𝘰𝘢𝘭, 𝘰𝘳, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘗𝘳𝘰𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘵? ★ 𝗔𝗡𝗦𝗪𝗘𝗥 ★ This is a very important question you have asked here. And there could be a full article on this... in fact, there are many 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐬 written on "achieving goal" "manifestation" and similar. 🌈But let us give you the very 'essence' of all that wisdom... in very 𝚌𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚛 & 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚎 words that you can always remember and recall>> 𝙆𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙜𝙤𝙖𝙡 & 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝗠𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴: Your "heart" is were your most inner desires live. Keep your heart married with the "goal" (the "purpose" of your life)... Keep them 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐝 as if they are ONE... Every time you have a desire, it must match with that goal... In other words, 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 & 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐭 on that single goal and "make it your life-purpose". and 🪴Keep your "mind" 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 >> because with mind, we make our day to day decisions... Only when our mind is 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝 and 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚝 in the given moment, can we make the 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬—the choices which brings us closer to that goal. Keep your mind free from temporary desires. Such short-term desires 'deviate' us from the actual goal. 👉👉So, every time you find yourself diverted by thoughts of past or future—𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝟐 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 and you will see that the period of silence will "expand" as you focus on that more and more. 🍁Now use this period of silence 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗼 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻... Find the "seat of your soul" and find the original goal, the purpose of your life that you have always desired. Live it. Experience it within the mind again... ☝️This practise empower us to re-focus all the senses to that one goal. 𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 is what helps in bringing & keeping the mind in the PRESENT moment. ➕May i suggest you a very good book that can help you here... this book named 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗢𝗪𝗘𝗥 𝗢𝗙 𝗡𝗢𝗪 is a world bestseller in this genre. Get FREE PDF >> https://www.shivbabas.org/ebook/the-power-of-now or BUY on Amazon>> https://www.amazon.in/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment-ebook/dp/B002361MLA 🌻Now you have the understanding that you need to progress. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: Knowing is one thing, but 𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕝𝕪𝕚𝕟𝕘 that knowledge is another. This will become your "wisdom" and you will become 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐞 when you apply and practise this. "good luck" Share on WhatsApp⇗ —————————— Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

This is a very helpful post for anyone who wishes to help a family member, friend, or relative to overcome any form of addiction (alchohol, smoking, etc). The following is written in response to a lady who approached us for guidance to help her 'brother' overcome his smoking addiction. Please read the following in the same context. This guidance is VALID for ALL people regardless of the form of their addiction. Title: "𝙃𝙚𝙡𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙎𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙤𝙣 𝘼𝙙𝙙𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣" Subtitle: 𝙲𝚘𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚎 & 𝚍𝚎𝚝𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚎𝚍 (𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚙-𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚎) 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚑𝚎𝚕𝚙 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚢 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚏 𝚊𝚍𝚍𝚒𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Jan 2025. Index Process in Brief Step-wise guidance Helpful Videos ———————————— 🌴First of all—do welcome our 'appreciation' as you approached for help and are trying to help your 'brother' to overcome smoking-addiction. 🍀Indeed smoking is highly injurious in many ways. Must be stopped in its early stage. But even now, 𝕚𝕗 𝕕𝕖𝕒𝕝𝕥𝕙 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕔𝕠𝕣𝕣𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕝𝕪, 𝕥𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕟 𝕔𝕠𝕣𝕣𝕖𝕔𝕥 𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕡𝕤, 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕣𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕒𝕔𝕙 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕞𝕠𝕥𝕚𝕧𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟—this CAN be done. The Process (in brief) Now helping your brother begins with: ➤𝘖𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘶𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘦𝘮𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘺, 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦. ➤Encouraging them to identify triggers, explore 'healthier' alternatives, and 'set achievable milestones' can reduce cravings and build confidence. ➤Consistent 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭, taking options like therapy or counseling, and 'celebrating small victories' all help foster a lasting change. After this post, please also read our detailed guidance on 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐀𝐝𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (Dec 2024) 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽-𝗪𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 (( Process in-detail )) In order to attain the desired result, you must consider every step of this process, be gentle, affirmative, and motivating. Here are our 6 suggestions: 1 𝗢𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Express genuine concern and willingness to help. Avoid blaming or lecturing; instead—invite them to share their struggles and motivations for quitting. 2 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗘𝗻𝘃𝗶𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 Keep your home smoke-free, be supportive around him, and offer alternatives—like 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚝𝚑𝚢 𝚜𝚗𝚊𝚌𝚔𝚜, 𝚏𝚛𝚞𝚒𝚝𝚜, 𝚐𝚞𝚖, 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚑 𝚓𝚞𝚒𝚌𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚜-𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚎𝚏 𝚒𝚗𝚍𝚘𝚘𝚛 𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚜 that keeps them engaged—to reduce temptation. 3 𝗘𝗻𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 Help them identify triggers and replace smoking with healthier habits, such as—𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤, 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐱𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐬, 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐘𝐨𝐠𝐚, etc. Watching motivational videos can be very encouraging and helpful. 4 𝗖𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗯𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗠𝗶𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀 Acknowledge their progress—whether it’s a day, a week, or a month of smoke-free living—and reward their successes. For example: 𝘛𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘳, 𝘤𝘶𝘵 𝘢 𝘤𝘢𝘬𝘦, 𝘤𝘭𝘢𝘱 & 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. 5 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 If needed, encourage them to consult healthcare providers or counselors for medication options, nicotine replacement therapies, and de-addiction rehabilitation camps. 6 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 Remain supportive, remind them of their initial reasons for quitting, and reaffirm your faith in their ability to overcome smoking. 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫: 'Acceptance' and 'Patience' are most important. ———————————— Helpful Videos Watch the following videos & suggest the same to the person in concern (your brother) BK Shivani on 'Overcoming Addiction' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vy3_2RP3ZMM BK Shivani on 'Helping someone with addiction' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGPjYrkMrAI Sadguru on 'How to overcome addiction' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKwLz6aI3aU Motivational Video by Sandeep Maheshwari on "quitting addiction" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ro83VdwiYiA ✶EXTRA: Do visit our in-detailed post on 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐀𝐝𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (must visit once) "all the best" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

At times, we get this clear inner feeling--that the hardship we are experiencing in life is a result of a due (ongoing) karmic settlement, whether it is of past lives or the present. We wish this to settle as soon as possible, and the journey through it as 'smooth' as possible... so that we can heal & learn through it and grow in strength and wisdom. Title: "𝙎𝙢𝙤𝙤𝙩𝙝 𝙅𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝 𝙆𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙞𝙘 𝙨𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙡𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨" Subtitle: 𝙰 𝚋𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚏 𝚛𝚎𝚟𝚒𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚘𝚏 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚗𝚎𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚘 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝚘𝚗 "𝚔𝚊𝚛𝚖𝚒𝚌 𝚜𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚕𝚎𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜" 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎 𝚘𝚏 '𝚏𝚊𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚐𝚎𝚜' ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Dec 2024. ———————————— Response 🌳It is indeed a 'blessing' to know... The very fact that you know and understand all this "being a karmic settlement" with those souls, makes it all much easier to bare. You will no longer blame anyone. Unfortunately, when not knowing the 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚝𝚑 and 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖, most people go through life blaming others for their experience. And this cause a deep emotional wound. But when you 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘬𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘢, life becomes 𝐞𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 and 𝐟𝐫𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐟𝐮𝐥. 🪴So 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕚𝕤 𝕒 𝕓𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕘. But still, at times, this wisdom does not stay in our 'awareness' and we do get the WHY questions... even the question "how long would this last". 🌿If you are not an old member of this group, i would remind you briefly, what we have mentioned many times, whenever a query on "karma" and "destiny" has been asked: "𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙨𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙡𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣" 🌈𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐨𝐟 '𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧'. We are creating our experience with 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥, 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘬, 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘢𝘤𝘵... just as we create the destiny with every chioce/decision we make. Tip: Watch this video: CREATE (the process of life): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzPA1oGfVQA 🌸If right choices are made (in harmony with your 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎-𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎), you experience a 'smooth' journey. Hurdles comes mostly when we are distracted from our aim and make some mistake. 🌻Beyond that—"𝙈𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙖 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧, 𝙖 𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣". And thus, they are not really 'mistakes' but "blessing" and "stepping stones" to your final destination. ———————————— ✶Remember: 𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 '𝙤𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨' 𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙨𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 ➙In the higher truth, there is no good or bad experience, but only "𝚘𝚙𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚞𝚗𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚜" that are sent to you by the Universe, as a result of you setting a life-purpose, and you creating contunious thoughts & making choices. 🍁So do not be disappointed if an undesired experience visit you. It may be unpleasant, but it is also an 𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 for your progress... As it happens, "𝐰𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰 (𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 & 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲) 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐝𝐬𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬" 🌷So 𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗹. Even those who misunderstand, doubt, or trouble you. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐨 "𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧" 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞-𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞. As we go through challenging situations, we discover the hidden 'inner strength' and the soul expands. For the soul, this experience is not a pain, but a blessing. Tip: Read our post Healing with a New Hope 𝙄𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨, 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙗𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙏𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙏𝙧𝙞𝙪𝙢𝙥𝙨 If you wish to make your journey smoother, live life with "awareness"... Live every moment and make every choice/decision 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐞 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞, 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. ☝️Remember this ➙𝐊𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞 of the self, the situation and people around you. ➙𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 of your thoughts and the wisdom you hold. 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧➙ Do everything 'on purpose' with "a clear intention" and you will never do wrong, always be careful of your choices. Second You have also asked for help on "𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘬𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘤 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘴". 🍎Since this is a general topic on which i have written many times, there are many QnA published on our FORUM. Please visit, read & follow the 'spiritual insight' and 'practical suggestions' on the following 3 posts👉 𝗦𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗸𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗮 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 '𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲' 𝗮𝗻𝗱 '𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲' (most related) https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/settle-karma-with-love-patience 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗞𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗮 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗦𝗮𝗸𝗮𝘀𝗵 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 (latest) https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/healing-karmic-account-in-family 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘀𝗵 𝗮 𝗸𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗰 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁 (detailed) https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/how-to-finish-a-karmic-account ☝️Read all 3 posts one by one to get maximum support. Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)