Brahma Kumaris Forum

Guilt and grief, two of life’s most profound and lingering emotions, often intertwine to create an emotional weight that can negative impact our thoughts, actions, and sense of self. Whether arising from loss, regret, unmet expectations, or unresolved pain, these feelings can anchor us to the past, clouding the present moment (reality) and dimming hope for the future. In order to move forward in life, we must learn self-forgiveness, self-compassion, and releasing the pain of guilt/regret. Releasing these emotions is not about erasing memories or denying their significance, but about reclaiming our inner world. It requires courage to confront vulnerability, compassion to forgive oneself, and the willingness to embrace imperfection as part of the human experience. This article delves into the transformative journey of letting go, spiritual insights & practical suggestions to overcome any form of regret/guilt and grief, and ultimately, to find a path toward healing, acceptance, and renewed peace. ✶Background: This post is our response to a sister who contacted us, as she was suffering from feeling of guilt and regret, as she witnessed her father's death before her eyes in the hospital, and she could not help. Her father wanted to go back home and not stay in the hospital. Please read this post till the end... this is important for a complete understanding & healing. Title: "𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙂𝙪𝙞𝙡𝙩 & 𝙂𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙛" Subtitle: 𝚂𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠𝚕𝚎𝚍𝚐𝚎, 𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 & 𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚕𝚝, 𝚛𝚎𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚝 𝚘𝚛 𝚐𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚏 𝚞𝚙𝚘𝚗 𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚑 𝚘𝚏 𝚊 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚍 𝚘𝚗𝚎 Index Article Introduction Foreword ONE: Birth & Death Predestined Releasing Guilt & Regret TWO: What Love would do Sakash Healing THREE: 'We Meet Again' FOUR: Journey After Death Helpful Links ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 This is a delicate topic. We all would have (at some point in life) faced this situation where we lost someone from family or any loved one. This message is rather long, but promises 'healing' and 'upliftment'. 🍀Before we begin, remember, the aim and 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎 of this response message is not only to help you release the guilt and regret, but also to show you a way you can send your "blessings" and "thought energy" to that soul (your father who departed from this world) and thus also aiding that soul in 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐧. ——————————— 🪻This being a sensitive topic, i had to think deeply on how it should be addressed. I believe the best way would simply by telling you some 'spiritual truths' and 'connecting the dots'. This knowing should instantly release any guilt or regret. We will use POINTS for it to be most effective and clear: ONE: "𝗕𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵 & 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗣𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲𝗱" Everything has a perfect reasoning, a 𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 to happen. There is a "divine order" in the universe. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞, because every event is inter-dependent on each other. So if one thing fails to happen on time, it affects the 'divine timing' of everything else connected to it... And ultimately, we ALL are connected, spiritually 'in union'. 🪴Bring this wisdom to your situation. Your father's soul came here for a purpose... Just as we all have a 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞-𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞, for which we incarnate in every birth. When he attained that purpose, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞. There is nothing to gain any more by staying here against the divine order. "Delaying the time of death does not enhance your relationship with the person dying, but only fades it away". Because the part is done, and the soul needs 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐨 𝐚𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝, perhaps clear some pending karma with others, or 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞 using another body, at another place. Suggested post: 𝐈𝐬 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 & 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐝? 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲 𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗹𝘁 & 𝗥𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗲𝘁 Let's go back to the moment you described. Your father requesting you to take him away or home. And you believe that if you did that, he would be alive right now. Do you not believe that? or do you believe that 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬, 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬... whether you are at a hospital bed or at home... which one do you think is true? We wont tell you, because you know the answer. 🌱SECOND: Keep in mind—that your father's soul is 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞 of all this... None of us are... As we come here, we choose to "forget" all this... So he did not know that "time has come"... and thus, like any other human being, he exercised his instinct and desired to go away from it. Not to mention the "intense medications and the operation" were not a pleasant experience and naturally he would desire to leave the place. So, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨. TWO: "𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗪𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗗𝗼" Your love is not meant to hold them, but 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 '𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞'... When you love someone truly, you want for them 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝. Their will becomes your will. In their spiritual progress is your joy. Your happiness is no longer in 'holding on' what is running away, but in '𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠' the moments you were together. 🌳You do understand that life is not about days, months & years lived, but 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 you spent together which added meaning to your days upon the Earth. A life is 'glorified' and 'enjoyed' not when it is long, but when it is embraced wholly. Not those who lived longer are remembered dearly, but those 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲. It may be a day, an hour, a minute. Healing with Sakash You can still do your part, send your blessings & love to them... This 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬/𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 is primarily meant for HEALING... and we call it "SAKASH" FIRST: Please learn everything through our post: Sakash (Meaning, Method, Purpose) SECOND: Join our 𝗦𝗮𝗸𝗮𝘀𝗵 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗽, post ONE clear & recent picture of your father... with a 'short message' describing the story & purpose of giving Sakash. Joining link 👉 https://chat.whatsapp.com/C9WpulxNr8g3udw1AftGDc 🪷Spiritually teaches us 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐬. And when they leave, '𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀' 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗷𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 '𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗵' from the memories... You see, the reason we grieve for those who passed away, is the memories we hold. And then follows the thought that "we will never meet again". THREE: "𝐖𝐞 𝐃𝐨 𝐌𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐀𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧" Let us tell you the most important of all gifts you have received from this message: "We Do Meet Again" We are only here as 'visitors' and playing our part in the 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐚 we have created. When our part is done, we go back to where we belong... 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 (your 'soul-family')... They all are there... None of them is lost... No one is lost forever. You can join them only when your 'purpose' here is done. When your time comes, you will go. 🌈Not only will you meet your loved ones in the 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 (or call it 'heaven') but also back here... 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞... You could be the father and they could be your child. Would you remember this moment? No... Life is designed so that 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 (of past lives) while we are in the physical body... But yes, when the soul is detached from its body, it is back to the high vibrations, where the soul can access all its memories, of all lives. This is called 𝘼𝙠𝙖𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙘 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙨 (a library of all memories & experiences of every soul who ever lived) Learn about Akashic Records👉 https://www.gaia.com/article/akashic-records-101-can-we-access-our-akashic-records FOUR: "𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵" (Knowing this you would be at peace & be happy for the departed soul) 🌸Perhaps what can bring you 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 is this knowing: "𝚈𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚏𝚊𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛'𝚜 𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚕 𝚑𝚊𝚜 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚌𝚎𝚍 𝚊 𝚋𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚓𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚎𝚢 𝚊𝚜 𝚒𝚝 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜𝚎𝚍"... We all do and will... Heaven awaits us... These words are not here just to comfort you, but to bring you to the truth. 🍁Imagine how 'wonderful' the soul would have felt, coming 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧 associated with their physical body... Just as "life" is a gift from the creator, even "death" is such a 𝐠𝐢𝐟𝐭. 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 The soul, which had to lower its vibrations enough to be 'trapped' in a physical body, suddenly becomes FREE from it... Imagine 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 that the soul feels!! Beyond words... From being in pain, to being at 𝐭𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 & 𝐣𝐨𝐲... From experiencing death, to realising the 𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 of life... We can only try to imagine the beauty of this experience, but only those who lived it and yet came back to life feels it all. 🍎Yes, we are talking of 𝗡𝗲𝗮𝗿-𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵-𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 (𝐍𝐃𝐄) shared by millions of people all around the world. There are thousands of 'interviews' where the people who had a NDE recently or long ago, has shared their exeprience on camera. See it through them, how your father would have. ☝️𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬, 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡, 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫. ➕Explore the following YouTube channels for various 𝐍𝐃𝐄 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰𝐬👉 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐍𝐃𝐄 ➤ https://www.youtube.com/@TheOtherSideNDEYT 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲 ➤ https://www.youtube.com/@cominghomechannel 𝐀𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 ➤ https://www.youtube.com/c/AnthonyCheneproduction/videos (video interviews) ———————————— 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 Please visit all the following links one by one to gain maximum clarity & guidance: Recommended post: 𝗗𝗼 𝗪𝗲 𝗠𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵? Learn about 𝗡𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 (𝗡𝗗𝗘) 𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥: Watch this documentary👉 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗪𝗘 𝗔𝗥𝗘 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2AeOfYAJJ8o&list=PLCATdvkgqUV2-P92Xyxv9g1A1hsnFNqjR ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

In India, competitive exams are more than just academic assessments—they are gateways to prestigious careers, esteemed institutions, and transformative opportunities. From the UPSC exams that shape future civil servants to the fiercely contested engineering and medical entrance tests like JEE and NEET, these examinations demand not only intellectual rigor but also strategic preparation, emotional resilience, and adaptability. With millions of aspirants vying for a limited number of seats each year, the journey to success is often fraught with challenges, including intense competition, societal pressure, and the need to balance speed with accuracy. Yet, clearing these exams is achievable with a disciplined approach, tailored study plans, and a mindset of continuous improvement. This post is a response we gave to a Charted Accounting (CA) student. The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2025. So please read the following in the same context. 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝘾𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝘾𝘼 𝙚𝙭𝙖𝙢 (The following was our response to a sister who was struggling to clear her CA 'foundational' year exams & going through anxiety. We have given general insight, practical suggestions & 4 helpful links for further support) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ 🌴So you are struggling to complete a course that you like to study & started by choice. As your parents are very supportive, you want to suceed at your choice of course, and make them proud. 🍁Before we go ahead, there is a small contradiction that you should notice >> if you truly love the subject, you cannot fail it. And if you do not love it, we would surely advise you to 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲 and take the subjects that you love to study. 🪴When you love to learn something, 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 & 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬. There is no more struggle, since you LOVE and ENJOY what you are learning... You no longer need to rely on results, as the PROCESS of learning becomes the 'source' of your JOY. 🪻And more importantly—𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐝𝐨 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐬. Dont try to forcefully love what you have to do... There is nothing that you HAVE TO do in life... You are not here to fulfil obligations, but 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟. "𝙄𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙩𝙝, 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨, 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙛𝙞𝙡𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 & 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨" 🌳𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫: "No one has ever succeeded in doing something that they did not enjoy"—All meaningful & wonderful things have been accomplished by those 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐢𝐭 & 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬... Even when they faced obstacles & multiple failures, they kept moving... because they enjoyed the process. 👉👉So, find out what makes your heart beat... what takes your breath away... what 'excites' & 'motivates' you the most... Is it teaching, writing, being a doctor, or what. Dont forget👉𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞.. you are still in the 'foundation' year, and can easily change the course. 🍎𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞 but want our guidance to succeed at it, here is our detailed guidance, given through the following 2 posts: Help on Studies & Exam (step wise) https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/help-on-studies-exam A Complete Guide to Success (very helpful) https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/guide-to-success ———————————— Second You mentioned of 'anxiety'. This must be healed in its early stage. Here is our guidance >>(visit both posts) Overcoming Anxiety & Waste thoughts Article: Guide to 'Healing Depression' ☝️Read again if necessary, and follow ALL FOUR links to get further guidance & support. ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

We have explained in great detail on 'manifestation' and how it works (the process). We have also understood what 'life-purpose' is, and that we all have a purpose for every birth. If you connect both concepts, there would be a question: What if i desire to have to be something, which is NOT a part of my life-purpose... Would it manifest? This post not only gives the answer to this good question, but also open new doors to deeper understanding on life, drama, and manifestation. It connects all the dots to bring you the 'full picture' of creation. Learn how deeply our desires (yearnings) are connected with our life-purpose. It enhances our life when we have clarity on how manifestation actually work, how it aligns with our life-purpose, and how togetherly they create our life journey. Title: "𝙈𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙛𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙫𝙨 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚" Subtitle: 𝙻𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚎𝚌𝚛𝚎𝚝 & 𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚖𝚘𝚗𝚢 𝚋/𝚠 𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚒𝚏𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, 𝚊𝚏𝚏𝚒𝚛𝚖𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎-𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎 Index Introduction Answer & Explanation What is my Purpose? Conclusion Helpful Links ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 🌴The following question was asked, based on this quote: "𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘧𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦. 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘪𝘹𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘪𝘳𝘵𝘩, 𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭-𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 & 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘬𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘢. 𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘰𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦." 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: Does it then mean we cannot manifest what is not related to our life-purpose? 𝗔𝗡𝗦𝗪𝗘𝗥: What is said in the quote is true. But let me put it more clearly: Nothing happens without a cause & for a higher reason All that happens in life, 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞, for which you have come here on Earth. Remember this as you read the following: 🪴𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐧, 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐝, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐞𝐞𝐭, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐝𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬 (𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦𝐬) 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠—all of it is a part of the plan. The master-plan that YOU created even before taking the birth. It was all meant to be, all planed by you & for you to reach the purpose. 🪻Now, coming to the part of 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬. You read what we mentioned in the above paragraph: "𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘴 (𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴) 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦... 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘯" 🌳Not only that you will not manifest what is not meant for you, but 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭. You as the soul has had a 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 (a deep desire) for which you have come here... Living the life, yes you may think and may want/desire things at some point of life, but those desires will not last long. They would just be at the thought level, and wouldn't buy space in your heart. ✶𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲: Everyone wants to be rich, manifest more money. But do they manifest? No... Because it is not just about thinking, but also taking & acting upon the opportunities sent to you by the universe. 🍁Your thought is a desire to have something... As a response, the universe sends to you the 'opportunities' that can lead you to fulfilment of that desire. But will you take and act on those opportunities? Lets explore that: 𝐈𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐞: You are walking on a straight road (this road is your life-plan). This road leads to the goal, which is your life-purpose... Now as you walk along, you see many many side-roads & side-scenes. These are distractions, as they lead you away or delay you from reaching your destination. 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐮𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞... The universe keeps sending us 𝙤𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚, 𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙖𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 that connects us to our purpose. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗞𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗠𝘆 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲? You asked a wonderful question within your message. How do i know what my purpose is? ✶𝘼𝙣𝙨𝙬𝙚𝙧: Listen to your 𝕚𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕣 𝕙𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕥, 𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕦𝕚𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟, 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕤𝕚𝕩𝕥𝕙 𝕤𝕖𝕟𝕤𝕖. More often than not you will observe that you knew (in your heart) what will happen, and then it happens! How did you know? Because 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 before coming here. Your purpose was fixed, and with that, a lot of events in your life were fixed. 🍀See around: If you ask successful people in any field, they would tell you that they always wanted to be a musician, cricketer, footballer, teacher, writer... They always had a 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚒𝚛𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚛 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 for that. And when they followed that 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 & took the first step, the way got clearer, new opportunities came along, and the process began. Conclusion So by now you have understood how it all works. The question remains: "How do i know if something is not meant for me?" Essence: If something is not meant to happen or 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞, then no matter how much you chase it, it only goes away. Second: If it is not aligned to your purpose, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 '𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞' 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐢𝐭, as we have explained already. Your soul would naturally be attracted to the purpose you have set for yourself. Nothing else is alluring, but the original yearning. Briefly, 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝐨 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲, 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐲, 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞. 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 It is very important and helpful, to understand what 𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚒𝚏𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 is, and how it works. We invite you to visit & read the following posts one by one to gain a lot more clarity: 𝐁𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐌𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐝 𝐨𝐟 '𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧' 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸? 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 '𝐒𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫' & 𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 '𝗝𝗼𝗯' & '𝗪𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵' 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)